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With everything from historic cities and open countryside to quintessential British seaside towns and amusement parks, Lincolnshire has a little bit of everything. It’s this diversity that makes Lincolnshire such a fantastic choice for a wedding destination. Because, whether you want to get married in a beautiful stately home, somewhere along the coast overlooking the sea, or at a five-star hotel where you can party in style, there’s an absolutely huge amount of choice. Not only that, but many of the region’s venues and vendors are also suitable for a wide range of budgets.
Our 2025 Wedding Report found that the average cost of a wedding in Lincolnshire and the rest of the East Midlands region is £16,788, making it cheaper than the UK average of £20,822 and significantly more affordable than London’s £28,629. In fact, that makes the entire area the cheapest in the entire UK on average, and almost £1,500 less than the second cheapest, which is Wales, where it costs an average of £18,368.
So, with picturesque locations, a huge range of venues and excellent value for money, it’s easy to see why so many couples choose Lincolnshire for their big day.
Couples who get married in Lincolnshire like to make a big deal about the natural beauty found around the area. This includes rustic and barn weddings with outdoor spaces, which can be made into fairytale settings with twinkling lights, floral arrangements and creative decor. This is evident from local couples spending the most on decor outside of London, at an average of £1,408 compared to the overall UK average of £1,271.
Similarly, during the spring and summer, couples in the region love to make the most of the parks, gardens and beaches, using them as beautiful backdrops to capture some amazing memories as part of their wedding photography package.
Couples also love to use stately home and manor house weddings as their venue, which offer a sense of timeless elegance, with venues that allow them to be treated like royalty for a day. It’s also common for couples in Lincolnshire to rely on the expertise of a wedding planner – who can actually lower wedding costs – with the average amount spent on a wedding planner in the region being £2,360, compared to the UK average of £1,892.
Lincolnshire offers a huge variety of wedding venues to choose from, from grand country estates to charming outdoor venues and coastal locations.
With more than 2,000 years of history in Lincoln, you won’t be surprised to hear that loads of venues around the wider county have plenty of history themselves. Irnham Hall is absolutely enormous, with luxurious settings both inside and out, and a wide selection of ceremony locations to choose from. Harlaxton Manor has an iconic look, with 300 acres of gardens and woodlands, and some truly breathtaking staterooms. Another brilliant choice is Bawtry Hall on the border of nearby Nottinghamshire, a fantastic venue offering unbeatable service.
To make the most of the glorious Lincolnshire countryside, you could choose a venue with outside ceremony and venue space and have a venue that celebrates the great outdoors. Immerse yourselves in beautiful woodland at Stourton Woods, capture the most special memories at the charming Hackthorn Estate & Walled Garden, or embrace the festival spirit at Ferry Farm.
Would you and your partner rather choose a venue that’s filled with character and different from other weddings you might have been to? If so, then Lincolnshire also has plenty of unique venues that tie into local history and culture. Ayscoughfee Hall Museum and Gardens lets you tie the knot in an intimate ceremony among medieval architecture; Guildhall Arts Centre is a Grade II listed art gallery and home to incredible pieces of artwork; and Gainsborough Old Hall was visited twice by the infamous King Henry VIII.
Being the most affordable region in the UK on average, there’s a huge selection of affordable venues in and around Lincolnshire. Venues such as Harbour Lights, Southview Park Hotel and The Windmill Hotel are all lovely places to exchange your vows and should be added to your list of considerations.
The average cost of a wedding venue in Lincolnshire, as well as the rest of the East Midlands, is £4,319, which is the lowest in the UK, where the overall average is £5,945. It’s also a lot less than couples pay in nearby Yorkshire, where the average cost of a venue is £7,356. So, not only can you find quality venues in Lincolnshire, but you can get them for an affordable price, too.
Lincolnshire is a popular wedding destination, thanks in part to the affordability of venues and other vendors around the area. If you’re looking to get married in the county, you’ll need to book your venue between 12 and 18 months ahead – but this could be two or more years if you want to get married during the summer or at the weekend, which is when most couples want to tie the knot.
If you’re happy to be flexible, such as by getting married during the winter or the middle of the week, you may find you can book something between six and nine months ahead. On top of this, you may find that you’ll pay less, too, as there’s less competition from other couples. Sounds like a win-win to us!
While there are coastal areas in Lincolnshire, such as Skegness and Cleethorpes, which can be hit with some gloomy weather coming in from the sea, the county has similar weather patterns to the rest of the UK.
Spring (March – May) is a lovely time of year, with blooming gardens and warm days perfect for a stroll along the seafront. Temperatures range from 10°C (50°F) in March to 16°C (61°F) in May, with occasional showers trying – but failing – to dampen the local spirit.
Summer (June – August) is the most popular time to get married in Lincolnshire, with temperatures between 18°C (64°F) and 23°C (73°F). With long daylight hours and warm weather, summer weddings in Lincolnshire are perfect for outdoor ceremonies either in the countryside or at a venue by the coast. Venues like Hanbeck Farm - Wedding Barn and Setcops Farm Cottages & Barn make for a fantastic outdoor celebration.
Autumn (September – November) sees the temperature start to drop from 17°C (63°F) in September to 9°C (48°F) in November, and the risk of rain and wind gets a little more likely, especially the closer to the coast you get. That’s why we’d recommend choosing a venue that will keep you and your guests nice and dry, like Beachcomber Cleethorpes or The Lincoln Hotel.
Winter (December – February) is perfect for intimate and atmospheric weddings, especially in countryside or inner city venues with roaring fires and warmly lit receptions. With temperatures between 2°C (36°F) and 7°C (45°F), winter weddings in Lincolnshire can be cold but beautiful, but you might want to think twice about planning photos for the beach – it’ll probably be icy cold!
Like locations across the whole of the East Midlands, Lincolnshire has some great travel links, making it easy for your wedding guests to travel to the region and make their way around.
While the county doesn’t have a major airport, East Midlands Airport (EMA) and Humberside Airport (HUY) are both within driving distance, offering flights to and from UK and European destinations.
For guests travelling by train, Lincoln Railway Station has direct services to London, Nottingham and Sheffield, while other towns like Grantham and Stamford offer fast train connections to the rest of the country.
Driving to Lincolnshire is straightforward, with the A1, A46 and A15 providing an easy route from London, the Midlands and the North. However, as Lincolnshire is a largely rural county, some venues may require extra travel planning, especially if you have a lot of guests who don’t drive.
With the likes of Lincoln, Skegness and Cleethorpes being major draws to the area, Lincolnshire offers you and your guests plenty of options when it comes to somewhere to stay. You could go for one of the spa hotels across the region, a big-name low-budget hotel or one of the many family-fun B&Bs. Something else you might like to consider is a hotel with event space, allowing you to have your ceremony and wedding all in one location. Check out hotels like The Admiral Rodney Hotel, Crown Hotel Bawtry and Belton Woods Hotel, Spa & Golf Resort, which all make for brilliant choices.
Holding your wedding at a hotel venue is a popular choice for weddings. There are so many stunning hotels that hold space for a range of functions including those dotted throughout Lincolnshire and beyond. Try looking at hotels situated in the city centre for a party atmosphere or take your guests away from t all by heading out into the countryside for a day not to forget.
There are some massive positives when it comes to holding your reception at a hotel including great surroundings and the fact that the venue will be used to catering for a large number of guests, as well as all those invited being able to stay at the hotel and avoid costly transport costs on the day. Holding your wedding at a hotel also means you are able to take advantage of an onsite wedding co ordinator who is able to point you in the right direction for trusted suppliers and entertainment on the day.
You might not know where to start when it comes to booking your wedding ceremony but it might not be as difficult as you think.There are over 100 places in Lincolnshire registered to hold civil ceremonies. The first thing you need to bear in mind is that you will legally need to give at least 29 days notice to marry.
You will also need to ensure you are up to date with the fees payable.You can find out about this by checking online or at your first appointment.
If you are planning to have a religious ceremony the process will differ and it's best to speak to your local Vicar or head of your religious denomination.
Bardney Hall and Walcot Hall and two popular venues that couples flock to get married in each year in Lincolnshire. Although you will be pleasantly surprised to realise that this treasured county is awash with beautiful venues to get married in.
If you are looking for something a little more chic and intimate that perhaps look at some of the restaurants located in the city centres of Louth and Grantham which are sure to be able to provide you with excellent service as you celebrate your wedding day. Another idea is to head out into the countryside and take a look at some of the county's secluded converted barn venues that look out onto the picturesque countryside.
If you are looking for something a little different when it comes to your Lincolnshire wedding you won't be disappointed when it comes to finding a whole heap of suppliers ready to help with your wedding plans! You could start your venue search by looking at some of the hidden gems that set the scene for a wedding that's a little different to the norm, or think outside the box even further and get your wedding photos in an off-the-wall location.
To keep guests entertained there are some great unusual wedding ideas including serving candy floss to guests, hiring stilt walkers and even commissioning an ice sculpture to wow your guests on the big day! Make sure you speak with your venue and see what ideas they have catered for in the past to ensure that you are able to create a truly spectacular and memorable day for you and your guests.
You will be able to find many great locations for your wedding ceremony should you choose to not get married in a church or other religious place of worship. Top spots for civil ceremonies in Lincolnshire are Dower House Hotel and Doddington Hall. You could check out these venues or venture further afield to the likes of Allington Manor and Bardney Hall where you will be able to move on to a dazzling reception with a great party atmosphere. Whether you decide to hold you civil ceremony be sure to visit the location first to get a feel for where you will be tying the know and be sure to listen to the information that is given to you in terms of the legalities to avoid any last-minute slip ups before the big.