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Price: £5,000 – £11,000
Guests: 160
Deals available: 2
Limited-Time Offers & Deals (2)
Description
Description
Situated in the beautiful rural Lincolnshire countryside, our idyllic and tranquil setting consists of over 30 acres of lush green lawns and parkland. Perfectly positioned beneath the uniquely romantic ruin of Kirkstead Abbey, our venue is bursting with historical charm and even has its own on-site 13th century church.
Our beautifully renovated barns have been designed to retain their unique and authentic Rustic Charm, whilst adding a modern luxury twist. Complete with twinkling fairy lights, the warmth and rustic nature of the exposed timber add a genuinely romantic and heartwarming atmosphere to any wedding day.
For each couple, there is huge flexibility when choosing how to use the spacious grounds and barns. This customisable element is reflected throughout every aspect of the venue. The choice is yours when deciding between multiple ceremony sites (including outdoor options!), your wedding breakfast location, round/long tables … the list goes on! Couples are also able to hand pick all of their own suppliers, making their day much more personal. As a small, family run business, from the initial viewing to the day itself, Venue Owner Jo and Wedding Manager Millie are always available to offer as much or as little advice as needed!
With capacity for up to 160 seated day guests & 250 evening guests, you have the option to hold the huge wedding you have always dreamed of or alternatively, keep things intimate for just close family & friends. There are also a large variety of accommodation options 1 mile down the road in Woodhall Spa to suit all of your guests. Exclusively yours, take advantage of setting up the day before the wedding so that you can enjoy the day itself to the fullest and relax the night before, knowing everything is just as you had imagined & more!
Message from the team
Name of Wedding Contact: Jo Nelstrop
Welcome to Abbey Farm Weddings - our family home, farm and wedding venue! Our wedding barns have been built with passion, restoring old stone and brick buildings and building brand new elements - we really love our barns! Romantic rustic luxury is how we would best describe our wedding venue....which we very much look forward to sharing with you
Experience
Year Business Was Established
2005
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
Yes
No. of People In Team
5
Overview of Abbey Farm Weddings
Wedding Venue Type
Barn / Farm
Wedding Venue Capacity
Dining Capacity
160
Reception Capacity
250
Pricing for Abbey Farm Weddings
Pricing for Abbey Farm Weddings
What's Included?
Exclusive use
Choice of preferred caterers
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Furniture included
Day before set up available
Our wedding venue is EXCLUSIVE to you. Our pricing includes:
Use of your chosen barns with up to 90 seated guests in Oak Barn and up to 160 seated guests in Old Granary Barn, trestle tables or round tables.
Option of Acacia wood top table, limewash or cross backed chairs, evening reception and dancing area.
Leather sofa and huge armchairs.
Wet weather drinks area if needed - all with underfloor heating.
For all weddings up to 250 evening guests can be accommodated.
The romantic courtyard reception area / evening area with twinkling fairy lights and huge outdoor fire pit, rustic tables and benches and warming blankets.
The Stone Barn with fully stocked bar, friendly bar staff and all glassware.
Sofas for after dinner drinks and chill out zone or as wet weather plan for reception drinks if needed.
Fairy lights throughout and tables, chairs and sofas next to the beautiful log burner.
Extensive Gardens & Parkland with views over to Kirkstead Abbey ruin and large patio area for arrival drinks (no sinking stilettos!) plus garden games of croquet, giant jenga & Lovebirds Bean bag game set up for you. You can even have Al fresco dining!
Luxury loos with underfloor heating, a discreet indoor area for your caterers, plus additional outdoor catering area, if needed, are all included within the price.
If you require a larger number of seated guests please get in touch with us so we can discuss the options with you.
There are 2 options, Option 1 includes use of Oak Barn, Stone Barn (the bar!) and the gardens for the entirety of the day. Option 2 includes use of all barns and the gardens for the whole day.
2025 Saturday pricing varies from £8,250-10,000. The lower price indicates Winter (November to March) whilst £10,000 is the maximum price for Summer 2025 Saturdays (May to September).
Weekday pricing varies from just £5,000-8,000. Please enquire for specific pricing based on day of the week and seasonality.
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- TTash & Adam22/09/2025The most magical place on EarthThe most magical place on EarthAbbey Farm is undoubtedly one of the most serenely beautiful spots in Lincolnshire. On one Saturday in August, it was - to us - the most magical place on Earth. The team at Abbey Farm will work non-stop to make sure that your wedding is perfect. No matter what is thrown at them, Jo, Millie and the rest of the team keep their cool and keep you celebrating. We felt that we were in the safest of hands at every step and we knew that, whatever the British weather threw at us, the day would be incredible. We loved the flexibility of being able to choose our own suppliers; we had so much fun whenever we got to visit and catch up with the team to plan our day; and did we mention the incredible setting - there is nowhere more beautiful. We could not have chosen a more wonderful or special place to get married and we hope that you're lucky enough to make the same choice as us to head to Abbey Farm for your Wedding Day.Abbey Farm is undoubtedly one of the most serenely beautiful spots in Lincolnshire. On one Saturday in August, it was - to us - the most magical place on Earth. The team at Abbey Farm will work non-stop to make sure that your wedding is perfect. No matter what is thrown at them, Jo, Millie and the rest of the team keep their cool and keep you celebrating. We felt that we were in the safest of hands at every step and we knew that, whatever the British weather threw at us, the day would be incredible. We loved the flexibility of being able to choose our own suppliers; we had so much fun whenever we got to visit and catch up with the team to plan our day; and did we mention the incredible setting - there is nowhere more beautiful. We could not have chosen a more wonderful or special place to get married and we hope that you're lucky enough to make the same choice as us to head to Abbey Farm for your Wedding Day.
- CChris & Hannah20/09/2025Magical wedding venue Magical wedding venueThank you Jo and Millie for helping us organise our dream wedding at Abbey Farm in August 2025! The planning went very smoothly and was stress-free, despite our wedding being quite short notice, and Abbey Farm were on hand to help at all times with supplier recommendations etc. On the day itself, we got married in Kirkstead church, which is connected to Abbey Farm by a lovely woodland walk. We then had a drinks reception in the beautiful garden followed by a sit down meal in the Oak barn and evening entertainment in the Granary barn. Everything was wonderful and everyone working at Abbey Farm (front of house and behind the scenes) are very kind and professional. Thanks for having us!Thank you Jo and Millie for helping us organise our dream wedding at Abbey Farm in August 2025! The planning went very smoothly and was stress-free, despite our wedding being quite short notice, and Abbey Farm were on hand to help at all times with supplier recommendations etc. On the day itself, we got married in Kirkstead church, which is connected to Abbey Farm by a lovely woodland walk. We then had a drinks reception in the beautiful garden followed by a sit down meal in the Oak barn and evening entertainment in the Granary barn. Everything was wonderful and everyone working at Abbey Farm (front of house and behind the scenes) are very kind and professional. Thanks for having us!
- CCaitlin & Ben04/09/2025Couldn't have imagined a more perfect day and venue!Couldn't have imagined a more perfect day and venue!Thank you to all the Abbey farm team for all your help from start to finish. A special shout out to Millie who was our main contact thought our wedding planning. Jo and the family at the farm, were super friendly and helpful on the day of the wedding! We even managed to use the land rover to transport me to the venue, it made it so special! Millie was super fast at responding and was so supportive throughout. On the day of set up, the whole Abbey team couldn't have been more supportive when facing issues with decorations. On the day, every team member was attentive and helped make our day magical. Stunning venue, couldn't recommend more!Thank you to all the Abbey farm team for all your help from start to finish. A special shout out to Millie who was our main contact thought our wedding planning. Jo and the family at the farm, were super friendly and helpful on the day of the wedding! We even managed to use the land rover to transport me to the venue, it made it so special! Millie was super fast at responding and was so supportive throughout. On the day of set up, the whole Abbey team couldn't have been more supportive when facing issues with decorations. On the day, every team member was attentive and helped make our day magical. Stunning venue, couldn't recommend more!
- MMolly & Harry30/08/2025Our wedding day Our wedding dayWe recently got married at Abbey Farm Weddings and it was the most perfect day! Jo, Millie and the Team were amazing and so lovely, there were so helpful from start to finish. We couldn’t have imagined a more perfect place to celebrate our wedding! From the moment we saw the venue we were blown away by how gorgeous it was and the care that went into every detail. The venue itself is absolutely stunning — elegant, and welcoming and it created the most magical atmosphere for our day. The team went above and beyond to make everything perfect. They were attentive, professional, and genuinely invested in making sure everything ran smoothly, which allowed us to relax and truly enjoy every moment. Our guests were equally impressed, saying about the space, the service, and the overall experience. It felt like the venue was made for us, and it will forever hold a special place in our hearts. We can’t recommend it highly enough to anyone looking for a wedding venue that is beautiful, memorable, and filled with warmth. Thank you Millie, Jo and the team at Abbey Farm for making our day feel so easy! Molly & Harry x We recently got married at Abbey Farm Weddings and it was the most perfect day! Jo, Millie and the Team were amazing and so lovely, there were so helpful from start to finish. We couldn’t have imagined a more perfect place to celebrate our wedding! From the moment we saw the venue we were blown away by how gorgeous it was and the care that went into every detail. The venue itself is absolutely stunning — elegant, and welcoming and it created the most magical atmosphere for our day. The team went above and beyond to make everything perfect. They were attentive, professional, and genuinely invested in making sure everything ran smoothly, which allowed us to relax and truly enjoy every moment. Our guests were equally impressed, saying about the space, the service, and the overall experience. It felt like the venue was made for us, and it will forever hold a special place in our hearts. We can’t recommend it highly enough to anyone looking for a wedding venue that is beautiful, memorable, and filled with warmth. Thank you Millie, Jo and the team at Abbey Farm for making our day feel so easy! Molly & Harry x
- MMichael and Olivia Rawlins28/08/2025The Best Day EverThe Best Day EverWe had the most perfect day at the most perfect venue! Abbey Farm was all we dreamt of and more. We loved every moment and can not thank Millie and Jo enough. They have been so warm, helpful, kind, welcoming and thoughtful. They genuinely care about their couples having a wonderful day. The venue is kept in excellent condition, our guests couldn’t stop telling us how beautiful the garden and barns are. We have such fond memories of our engagement era and wedding spent at Abbey Farm and it holds a really special place in our hearts. Personally we think our wedding was the best wedding we’ve ever been to!! We had the most perfect day at the most perfect venue! Abbey Farm was all we dreamt of and more. We loved every moment and can not thank Millie and Jo enough. They have been so warm, helpful, kind, welcoming and thoughtful. They genuinely care about their couples having a wonderful day. The venue is kept in excellent condition, our guests couldn’t stop telling us how beautiful the garden and barns are. We have such fond memories of our engagement era and wedding spent at Abbey Farm and it holds a really special place in our hearts. Personally we think our wedding was the best wedding we’ve ever been to!!
- KKaren & Philip27/08/2025Beautiful wedding VenueBeautiful wedding VenueAbbey Farm the hidden venue gem of Lincolnshire!! The venue is stunning and the grounds are well kept, we had the most amazing wedding day there and the staff were so friendly and supportive. We would highly recommend this venue, we had our wedding ceremony and reception there and it was so beautiful from start to finish. Only thing I would say would make the venue perfect is having accommodation onsite. We are still buzzing from our day and wish we could turn back time!! Thank you Abbey FarmAbbey Farm the hidden venue gem of Lincolnshire!! The venue is stunning and the grounds are well kept, we had the most amazing wedding day there and the staff were so friendly and supportive. We would highly recommend this venue, we had our wedding ceremony and reception there and it was so beautiful from start to finish. Only thing I would say would make the venue perfect is having accommodation onsite. We are still buzzing from our day and wish we could turn back time!! Thank you Abbey Farm
- DDan & Tiffany29/06/2025The Best Venue and TeamThe Best Venue and TeamWe could not fault a single thing, the venue is so naturally beautiful and looked absolutely perfect on the day. I can only imagine how much effort goes into keeping the grounds so tidy and pristine, especially on a working farm, it is a credit to the attention to detail that the team have. On such a hot day(hottest of the year) all the staff were brilliant, they always had a smile for you and were a pleasure to interact with. We have had nothing but compliments on the team and the venue, it was appreciated by both us and our guests. Everyone had a wonderful time and we had the best day. We could not have asked for any more, Jo and Millie were always prepared for any question we asked and made us feel truly at home and at ease. From the first visit you could tell how much they cared, they even had people meeting you at the car with an umbrella. Everyone keeps commenting on how calm we were, but that was in part thanks to the team at Abbey Farm and how capable and in control they were, even when vendors were panicking about the heat and timings of deliveries, they had a solution and dealt with whatever needed doing and we appreciated this immensely as it kept us in an excitement bubble which made the day and setting up more enjoyable. You know that the team are the very best when even the cleaners were lovely(and absolutely deserve a mention), they were so cheerful and had made sure that we had everything in piles that we may have forgotten. They made what could have been a stressful hour very enjoyable, even with a few sore heads. We could not recommend this venue and the team enough, they are perfection! We could not fault a single thing, the venue is so naturally beautiful and looked absolutely perfect on the day. I can only imagine how much effort goes into keeping the grounds so tidy and pristine, especially on a working farm, it is a credit to the attention to detail that the team have. On such a hot day(hottest of the year) all the staff were brilliant, they always had a smile for you and were a pleasure to interact with. We have had nothing but compliments on the team and the venue, it was appreciated by both us and our guests. Everyone had a wonderful time and we had the best day. We could not have asked for any more, Jo and Millie were always prepared for any question we asked and made us feel truly at home and at ease. From the first visit you could tell how much they cared, they even had people meeting you at the car with an umbrella. Everyone keeps commenting on how calm we were, but that was in part thanks to the team at Abbey Farm and how capable and in control they were, even when vendors were panicking about the heat and timings of deliveries, they had a solution and dealt with whatever needed doing and we appreciated this immensely as it kept us in an excitement bubble which made the day and setting up more enjoyable. You know that the team are the very best when even the cleaners were lovely(and absolutely deserve a mention), they were so cheerful and had made sure that we had everything in piles that we may have forgotten. They made what could have been a stressful hour very enjoyable, even with a few sore heads. We could not recommend this venue and the team enough, they are perfection!
- NNaomi & Martin26/06/2025Just the BEST wedding day everJust the BEST wedding day everWe cannot recommend Abbey Farm enough! You are in such good hands with Jo, Millie & the whole team! If you've already booked or are thinking of booking - DO IT! Honestly you will not regret it. From the lead up to the wedding day, to on the wedding day itself - it is abundantly clear that Jo & Millie know exactly what they're doing - they have got the whole experience down to a T! We knew we were in our wedding venue and in such good hands the very moment we viewed the venue and spoke to Millie and Jo. We LOVED our whole wedding day and we still LOVE to this day hearing from our wedding guests at how much they loved Abbey Farm & the whole team there too. We cannot thank Millie & Jo enough for everything, thank you all so much! xxWe cannot recommend Abbey Farm enough! You are in such good hands with Jo, Millie & the whole team! If you've already booked or are thinking of booking - DO IT! Honestly you will not regret it. From the lead up to the wedding day, to on the wedding day itself - it is abundantly clear that Jo & Millie know exactly what they're doing - they have got the whole experience down to a T! We knew we were in our wedding venue and in such good hands the very moment we viewed the venue and spoke to Millie and Jo. We LOVED our whole wedding day and we still LOVE to this day hearing from our wedding guests at how much they loved Abbey Farm & the whole team there too. We cannot thank Millie & Jo enough for everything, thank you all so much! xx
- AAbi & Craig20/06/2025Absolutely amazingAbsolutely amazingFrom before we even booked the venue and was just viewing it till after the wedding the amazing staff have been nothing but amazing. They have been friendly, very informative and amazing at communicating. The venue it self is so beautiful and just perfect for couples who don't want to spend alot on decorating because the venue itself is just gorgeous. From before we even booked the venue and was just viewing it till after the wedding the amazing staff have been nothing but amazing. They have been friendly, very informative and amazing at communicating. The venue it self is so beautiful and just perfect for couples who don't want to spend alot on decorating because the venue itself is just gorgeous.
- SSam & Lauren19/06/2025The best day of our livesThe best day of our livesThanks to Millie, Jo and the rest of the team at Abbey Farm we had our perfect day, we can’t thank them enough! The setting was beautiful both indoors and outdoors. We couldn’t be happier with how our special day turned out!Thanks to Millie, Jo and the rest of the team at Abbey Farm we had our perfect day, we can’t thank them enough! The setting was beautiful both indoors and outdoors. We couldn’t be happier with how our special day turned out!
Location & Contact Details for Abbey Farm Weddings
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Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?
Every wedding is different here and we love to see how each couple bring their individuality and create amazing and beautiful wedding days !
What is your No.1 wedding planning tip for couples?
Thought and planning in advance will create the day you are looking for but we are always on hand to help as much or as little as you wish both on the day and beforehand
What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?
A vintage bicycle painted with a couple's wedding illustration and beautiful flowers in the basket... a quirky and personalised welcome at the Oak Barn entrance for all the wedding guests
Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.
Romantic, Rustic, Relaxed, Picturesque and Weather-proof!,
Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?
There are many! The gardens and acres of open countryside, the Abbey and the rustic backdrops of the pond, brick and stone or oak beams all make for beautiful and memorable photos as do the surrounding fields
Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?
Maybe!
What’s your favourite canapé?
As a born and bred Lincolnshire family, it has to be honey and mustard Lincolnshire sausages!
What’s your favourite midnight treat?
Bacon sandwiches!
What is your venue's most unique feature?
We love the Oak Barn and the Old Granary Barn which we have built as a labour of love - they really are stunning! As far as we know, the mud and stud building of the Oak Barn is the first of its kind for over 300 years.
What part of your business are you most proud of?
Most proud of the incredible testimonials and feedback our team receive after a wedding - happy couples, families and all their friends and most of all we love what we do and enjoy all the wedding days too!
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