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Price: £8,995 – £14,995
Guests: 100
Bedrooms: 12
Description
Description
Your special day will be hosted in our Downs Suite, which seats up to 100 of your favourite people for your ceremony and wedding breakfast. You will have access to your own private garden and stretch tent that have incredible views of the South Downs, meaning your guests can be indoors or out throughout the day – perfect for bubbles after your ceremony in the summer. Your wedding breakfast will become the meal you dream about - it is totally customisable from our wedding menu, meaning you can get exactly what you’re looking for to enjoy as your first meal as a married couple. Once the evening arrives, we will turn the room around and make it ready for you and up to 150 guests to dance the night away! Whether you want a band or DJ, our space is perfect for having the party of your dreams. Finish your day with a stay in our Honeymoon Suite, and invite loved ones to stay with you in one of our 11 rooms available. Our event managers and conscientious team are always on hand to assist throughout the day, meaning you don’t have to worry about a thing – your only priority is having the best day of your lives.
Message from the team
Name of Wedding Contact: Helen Pomery
Congratulations on your engagement, and thank you for considering Tottington Manor Hotel as the venue for your wedding. As one of the owners I would like the opportunity to meet and tour you around the venue and find out more as to how we can tailor your day to make it memorable and special. Hospitality is at the core of what we do, we have fabulous food prepared from local ingredients, a fabulous location with stunning views of the South Downs and we look forward to meeting you.
Experience
Year Business Was Established
2021
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
Yes
No. of People In Team
50
Overview of Tottington Manor
Wedding Venue Type
Country House / Manor House
Wedding Venue Capacity
Dining Capacity
100
Reception Capacity
180
Wedding Venue Accommodation
No. of Bedrooms
12
Sleeps No. of People
24
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite
Pricing for Tottington Manor
Pricing for Tottington Manor
What's Included?
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Canapés included
Couple accommodation included
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)
Furniture included
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Enquire with us today to discuss your ideas for your big day and we can tailor your day to suit you, your family and friends. We can celebrate weddings from getting ready through to the following morning with accommodation available on site for weddings from 35 to 100 in the daytime and up to 180 in the evening.
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- KKylie & Chris10/03/2025We are so grateful for everything! XWe are so grateful for everything! XWe can't thank you all enough for making our Wedding Day so perfect! From the very first day you made us feel very welcome. At that moment we knew Tottington Manor was the place for us. When the big day came along it was everything we imagined and more. Thankfully we had the weather on our side too. Our guests were full of praise for the food and staff on the day. We just want to say a big thank you to you all! We never imagined our day would be the way it was and that is all down to you. X We can't thank you all enough for making our Wedding Day so perfect! From the very first day you made us feel very welcome. At that moment we knew Tottington Manor was the place for us. When the big day came along it was everything we imagined and more. Thankfully we had the weather on our side too. Our guests were full of praise for the food and staff on the day. We just want to say a big thank you to you all! We never imagined our day would be the way it was and that is all down to you. X
- NNiki & Jack20/02/2025Above & Beyond!Above & Beyond!Jack and I just wanted to say a huge thank you for making our special day so amazing. It was everything we wanted and more! The food was incredible and we have had lots of compliments about it so I’m sure you will have some returning customers for the Restaurant! We would also like to say how amazing you and your team were, you all went above and beyond so thank you! We look forward to returning to Tottington & Terra in the future. x Jack and I just wanted to say a huge thank you for making our special day so amazing. It was everything we wanted and more! The food was incredible and we have had lots of compliments about it so I’m sure you will have some returning customers for the Restaurant! We would also like to say how amazing you and your team were, you all went above and beyond so thank you! We look forward to returning to Tottington & Terra in the future. x
- NNastasha & Garry on facebook04/02/2025Just as I'd envisaged it!Just as I'd envisaged it!We just want to say a masive thank you for all that everyone at Tottington did for us for our wedding weekend, We had the most Fabulous day and youguys made sure everything went smoothly. We've had many compliments from friends and family saying that they loved the venue and in particular thought the wedding breakfast and evening buffet food was perfect.We just want to say a masive thank you for all that everyone at Tottington did for us for our wedding weekend, We had the most Fabulous day and youguys made sure everything went smoothly. We've had many compliments from friends and family saying that they loved the venue and in particular thought the wedding breakfast and evening buffet food was perfect.
- DDan & Caley, November 202324/05/2024Better than I ever imagined!Better than I ever imagined!My husband and I had the most amazing Wedding Day, everything went to plan and better than I ever imagined. Helen and her team are amazing! Kat was our Wedding Coordinator, and she was amazing, she helped us plan things we didn't even realise we needed to do. The food was amazing, and we had so many compliments from our guests! I would recommend Tottington tp anyone looking to get married! My husband and I had the most amazing Wedding Day, everything went to plan and better than I ever imagined. Helen and her team are amazing! Kat was our Wedding Coordinator, and she was amazing, she helped us plan things we didn't even realise we needed to do. The food was amazing, and we had so many compliments from our guests! I would recommend Tottington tp anyone looking to get married!
- SSevi & Ollie, April 202424/05/2024"I saw the venue, I knew that was THE PLACE""I saw the venue, I knew that was THE PLACE"I saw the venue and I met Helen I knew that was THE PLACE I wanted to get married. They take control of everything to make sure your special day is beautiful and in the way we wanted it to be. The word "no" is not in their vocabulary unlike the other venues we looked at! Helen and Cat listened to all our needs and worries, and were always a calming influence. I never had any stress in the arranging of the wedding or even on the actual wedding day. This place will always be so special for me!I saw the venue and I met Helen I knew that was THE PLACE I wanted to get married. They take control of everything to make sure your special day is beautiful and in the way we wanted it to be. The word "no" is not in their vocabulary unlike the other venues we looked at! Helen and Cat listened to all our needs and worries, and were always a calming influence. I never had any stress in the arranging of the wedding or even on the actual wedding day. This place will always be so special for me!
- KKieron & Sarah, May 202424/05/2024"an exceptional experience from start to finish!""an exceptional experience from start to finish!"We recently celebrated our wedding at Tottington Manor, and it was an exceptional experience from start to finish. From our first meeting with Helen, one of the co-owners, to our interactions with Cat and the rest of the team, we were met with incredible attentiveness and warmth. You absolutely cannot put a price on that kind of hospitality. We are very happy and deeply grateful for the wonderful experience. Thank you, Tottington Manor! (especially Cat for keeping the day on track! <3) We recently celebrated our wedding at Tottington Manor, and it was an exceptional experience from start to finish. From our first meeting with Helen, one of the co-owners, to our interactions with Cat and the rest of the team, we were met with incredible attentiveness and warmth. You absolutely cannot put a price on that kind of hospitality. We are very happy and deeply grateful for the wonderful experience. Thank you, Tottington Manor! (especially Cat for keeping the day on track! <3)
- GGarry & Ruth, May 202424/05/2024A Beautiful Team & VenueA Beautiful Team & VenueRuth and I have just been married at the Tottington Manor. Cat and the team have been amazing. From the beginning to the end they were with us at every point. Such a beautiful team and venue that work so incredibly hard to make your day special. We would highly recommend. The food was just amazing and all our wedding guests loved the whole experience. Thank you all for making our day so memorable xxRuth and I have just been married at the Tottington Manor. Cat and the team have been amazing. From the beginning to the end they were with us at every point. Such a beautiful team and venue that work so incredibly hard to make your day special. We would highly recommend. The food was just amazing and all our wedding guests loved the whole experience. Thank you all for making our day so memorable xx
- CChris & Fiona Danes28/11/2023Such an amazing, special day.Such an amazing, special day.Well what can we say….Had the most perfect day. Absolutely beautiful venue for our wedding. Can’t thank you enough for all you did for us. From the lead up to the actual day. Helen and Cat have an amazing team. Nothing was too much trouble. All of our guests were equally impressed. Well what can we say….Had the most perfect day. Absolutely beautiful venue for our wedding. Can’t thank you enough for all you did for us. From the lead up to the actual day. Helen and Cat have an amazing team. Nothing was too much trouble. All of our guests were equally impressed.
- ZZoe Broster, Google22/11/2023Nothing short of perfectNothing short of perfectWe had our wedding at Tottington Manor in mid august and it was nothing short of perfect, start to finish! Right from our first look round Cat filled us with such confidence and despite me being a massive control freak, I felt 100% confident putting my wedding in her hands. The whole team were so helpful... On the big day itself all our guests constantly complimented the venue and staff and we received countless comments on how attentive and polite they all were. We had our wedding at Tottington Manor in mid august and it was nothing short of perfect, start to finish! Right from our first look round Cat filled us with such confidence and despite me being a massive control freak, I felt 100% confident putting my wedding in her hands. The whole team were so helpful... On the big day itself all our guests constantly complimented the venue and staff and we received countless comments on how attentive and polite they all were.
- AAmy, Google22/11/2023I'd do it all again tomorrow!I'd do it all again tomorrow!We had our Wedding at Tottington and if I could, I'd do it all again tomorrow! Staff were INCREDIBLE, nothing was too much trouble and they were just so lovely and friendly. The food was beautiful, presented so well and tasted amazing! The rooms are gorgeous and so comfy and the surroundings just speak for themselves! Cat is honestly like superwoman, there was nothing she hadn't thought of, she assisted us the whole way from booking to partying and we're so very grateful to the Tottington Team xWe had our Wedding at Tottington and if I could, I'd do it all again tomorrow! Staff were INCREDIBLE, nothing was too much trouble and they were just so lovely and friendly. The food was beautiful, presented so well and tasted amazing! The rooms are gorgeous and so comfy and the surroundings just speak for themselves! Cat is honestly like superwoman, there was nothing she hadn't thought of, she assisted us the whole way from booking to partying and we're so very grateful to the Tottington Team x
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Describe the best wedding that happened at your venue?
A couple invited family and relatives of all ages to their special day, and so hired in garden games, a photobooth, DJ etc. Because of the location of the Downs Suite with its Gardens, family and friends from every walk of life were spending time with each other and joining in the festivities. The venue was full of laughter and happiness all day, and it was a wonderful atmosphere to be a part of. That family will have great memories from the day.
What is your No.1 wedding planning tip for couples?
Listen to the advice of everyone you know, but make decisions that reflect what YOU want from your big day.
What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?
A guest book - a wedding can be quite a busy day, yet each guest can take some time to write their thoughts and well wishes into the book. The couple can have a great time reading and remembering their family and friends memories of their time together. Another way is to set up a private instagram account for the day and get all your guests to take photos, tag the instagram account and leave their messages.
Describe your venue in 5 adjectives.
Location, Hospitality, Food, Views, Care.
Where’s the best photo spot at your venue?
Looking out from the stretch tent of the Downs Suite Gardens across the front of the Hotel and out to the hillsides of the South Downs.
Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at your venue?
We have the occasional guest who you would recognise from TV and Sport who visit the restaurant, but not for a wedding!
What’s your favourite canapé?
I like to keep it simple with just a small amount of parfait topped with a little fruity chutney.
What’s your favourite midnight treat?
Sussex Chalmer Cheese, Crackers with a side of Caramelized Onion Chutney
What is your venue's most unique feature?
The View of the South Downs and the Jacuzzi Bath/Swimming Pool in the Honeymoon Suite.
What part of your business are you most proud of?
The team who provide the top level hospitality, with care and passion every step of the way.
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