£4,500 - £6,750 for Venue Hire
Up to 180
88 Bedrooms
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Description

South Lodge really is the perfect venue for all seasons. In spring we welcome a striking colourful display of rhododendrons. Our outdoor wedding pavilion offers the unique opportunity to marry with the beautiful backdrop of the South Downs in. Set within the 93 acres of parkland it is the perfect setting for your wedding day, and candlelit ceremonies and roaring log fires add to the atmosphere of love and romance when there is a chill in the winter air. With an abundance of suites to choose from, award-winning dining, bespoke service and a dedicated wedding co-ordinator who understands that it’s the little details that make all the difference, we're poised to plan everything to perfection. Just for you!

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Lizzie Lake
Congratulations on this exciting new chapter! I couldn’t be more delighted to be part of your journey as you plan your special day. We know how deeply personal a wedding is, and our whole team is committed to making your vision come to life with warmth, care, and attention to every detail. From the moment you step through our doors, my team and I are here to ensure your experience is as seamless and memorable as possible. Please don’t hesitate to reach out with any ideas or questions.

Experience

Year Business Was Established
1985
No. of Weddings Hosted
More than 50
Public Liability Insurance
Yes
No. of People In Team
4

Overview of South Lodge

Venue Type
Hotel
Dining Capacity
180
Reception Capacity
250
No. of Bedrooms
88
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite
Usual Access Time
07:00 AM
Usual Finish Time
12:00 AM

Ceremony & Reception

Sound System Available
Wedding Licence
Dancefloor Available
Outdoor Ceremony Available
Confetti Permitted

Venue

Landscaped Gardens
Exclusive Use
Spa On-Site
Pet Friendly
Disabled Access
On-Site Parking
Outdoor Reception Space
In-House Wedding Coordinator

Food and Drink

External Catering Permitted
In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
Halal Catering
Alcohol Licence
Vegan Catering
Bar

Cultural Specialists

Jewish Wedding Specialist
Muslim Wedding Specialist
Asian Wedding Specialist

Pricing for South Lodge

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
£4,500
Maximum Price
£6,750
From small intimate weddings to large celebrations - we will advise the best sized space for you! We do offer dry hire and prices do depend on day of the week and season. This is a great option for couples who require specific caterers.
What is included in this pricing:
Furniture included
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Couple accommodation included

Packages
(price per head)

Prices Start At
£90
Maximum Price
£230
Minimum Number of Guests
30
We have a variety of different packages on offer to suit your perfect day but can also create bespoke packages. Please do contact us for more information.
What is included in this pricing:
Canapés included
Furniture included
Wine / soft drinks allowance per guest
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Couple accommodation included

Packages
(total price)

Prices Start At
£10,500
Maximum Price
£13,800
Number of Guests Included
60
What is included in this pricing:
Furniture included
Canapés included
Wine / soft drinks allowance per guest
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Couple accommodation included
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)

Reviews for South Lodge
(61)

Julia & John
Happy couple married in September
October 2024
Wedding at South Lodge

We had an unforgettable wedding day at South Lodge Hotel. It is a beautiful venue, but what is more important is that the staff took care of every detail, allowing us to fully enjoy the celebration with our friends and family without any concerns about logistics. On top of that, the afternoon tea and the evening buffet were amazing, and we’re left with such wonderful memories of our special day.

Simon & Naomi
Happy couple married in September
September 2024
Spectacular occasion, brilliant staff, wonderful venue

We held our blessing and our wedding breakfast at South Lodge Hotel. We could not have been more delighted. It was all very beautiful and emotional. Everyone on the staff was lovely and couldn’t do enough to help - we felt very looked after. The events team made great suggestions and were responsive, diligent and showed attention to detail in the months during which we were been preparing and making decisions. On the day the management team were very responsive. The food and the food service were fantastic, feeding 80 in a low key way that was also seemingly instant. There was no intrusion, it just all seemed to work. The guests were universally extremely impressed. There were some lovely personal touches. The operation of the wedding on the day was almost flawless. The event rooms looked amazing, the Gladstone room was spectacular and the Glyndebourne room, where we held the blessing, looked and felt the part. The bedrooms were typically impressive, large, and comfortable. We felt it was worth every penny. Not everyone can afford to have their wedding at South Lodge, but if you can it's the place.

Mark & Elaine
Happy couple married in August
September 2024
A pleasure from start to finish

A belated review! My wife and I have just celebrated our first wedding anniversary, which makes it about a year since Elaine ‘delegated’ the responsibility of writing a review of South Lodge, the venue for our special day, to me. We are fortunate that we live in an area with no shortage of beautiful venues, and my bride-to-be soon collated a list of potential candidates. Over the next month or so, I diligently chauffeured Elaine to many places, and we eventually narrowed the choice down to three venues. We visited Lizzie and the team at South Lodge, and at once were made to feel special. Not the most inexpensive venue to get married at, we viewed the others, but Elaine’s heart was set on South Lodge. Not for the first time, and as every husband will understand, I have to say she was right! From the initial discussions Lizzie was attentive to our needs which included investigating the possibility of Leni, our 2-year-old lively Labrador Retriever, attending the wedding. We were so lucky that Lizzie has a Lab of her own and offered to look after her for the Wedding Day herself! We were walked through the process, our requirements gathered, and arrangements made seamlessly. We had a tasting menu to select our food and drink choices. The menu choices were all delicious, partnered with excellent wine pairings. We also were shown the rooms, as we had some family and friends from overseas attending. All were a really high standard. Finally, all the arrangements were made, and it seemed as if it was effortless. Probably because for me it was, as Elaine and Lizzie did all of the hard graft! The Wedding Day. Although in early August, there are no guarantees on the weather in England, but South Lodge were prepared for that, with the outside wedding area set up but also an indoor room held in reserve just in case. Luckily for us the weather was glorious, so outside it was. It was extremely hot, which for those of us waiting in the blazing sun for nearly an hour for the bride to turn up was a challenge. But just as we were about to give up and go an enjoy the fine fare on offer, she arrived, looking radiant. With our guests, including Lizzie and Leni the Labrador, we made our vows. Lots of joking and laughter, outside surrounded by views of the beautiful views of the South Downs and the grand South Lodge building the ceremony itself was joyous. Fine English sparkling wine flowed, followed by the wedding breakfast and celebrations. The food was superb, the drink flowed for our 100 guests, who had traveled far and wide to share our special day. In the evening another 35 friends arrived, along with more fine food and drink. We eventually retired to the wedding suite, after a long and raucous evening. Fun was had by all. From the initial arrangements, preparation and our wedding, the South Lodge team made sure our day was truly special. I haven’t even mentioned the spa and facilities, which I am told by my wife are wonderful! We can’t thank the South Lodge team, especially Lizzie, for making our day unforgettable. Mark & Elaine

Lucy & Adam
Happy couple married in August
September 2024
The perfect venue

We can’t recommend south lodge enough - This truly was the most perfect venue for our day. Every step from booking to the actual wedding day was amazing. We were treated so kindly and all the staff were genuinely so happy and excited to help bring our dream wedding come to reality. Our day ran perfectly with no hiccups at all - all thanks to the immaculate communication and staff. Thank you everyone at south lodge for our fairytale day!

Joanna & Rory
Happy couple married in July
August 2024
Our wedding day

We had such a special day getting married at south Lodge hotel. We had one of their intimate packages with 30 guests. The staff were all very friendly and helpful with ideas for our day. The day could not of been anymore perfect. Thank you again. Memories to last a lifetime!

Mark & Sheridan
Happy couple married in July
July 2024
Outstanding

Mark D. , Married on 05/07/2024 5.0 Outstanding South Lodge is very beautiful and a lovely place to get married. We were treated very professionally and respectfully from the start, and offered a great deal of flexibility for our plans. All the planning staff were very responsive. We had hoped to get married in the beautiful pavilion, but unfortunately the British Summer being what it is, it poured down on the day. All the staff on the day responded magnificently and we had the ceremony indoors, and it was a lovely and gracious event. We had a great lunch for the wedding party and the recently married couple stayed overnight in a gorgeous room, taking advantage of the stunningly beautiful spa (highly recommended). All in all, many thanks to everyone at South Lodge who made our wedding day so happy and memorable.

Ashley & Josh
Happy couple married in May
July 2024
Our dream Wedding at South Lodge Hotel

We recently had the pleasure of celebrating our wedding at South Lodge Hotel, and we cannot recommend this venue highly enough. From start to finish, our experience was nothing short of extraordinary! From the outset, Lizzie, the Events Manager, was incredible. She guided us through every detail with patience and expertise, always available to discuss ideas, answer questions, and resolve any concerns. Her dedication and professionalism ensured that our wedding planning process was smooth and stress-free. On the big day, the food and service were truly five-star. Every course was cooked to perfection and presented to a fine dining standard, impressing all our guests. The team went above and beyond to ensure that every aspect of the meal was exceptional. The entire staff at South Lodge Hotel deserves special mention. Their attentiveness and willingness to help were evident throughout our day. Whether it was the setup, the drinks reception on the patio, or the evening festivities with our band, they ensured everything ran seamlessly. A standout member of the team was Dan, the Toastmaster. His exceptional skills were pivotal in the smooth running of our day. Dan’s attention to detail and warm demeanour made him an indispensable part of our wedding, ensuring that every moment was perfectly timed and executed. We had 65 day guests and an additional 30 for the evening. The drinks reception on the patio was a highlight, providing a stunning backdrop for our celebrations, and the evening entertainment with the band was the perfect ending to our special day. If you are considering South Lodge Hotel for your wedding, do not hesitate. They have the expertise, the team, and the dedication to make your dream wedding a reality. We are beyond grateful to everyone at South Lodge for making our day so unforgettable. Thank you, South Lodge Hotel!

Karen
Happy couple married in June
July 2024
South lodge Hotel and Spa

Fantastic service throughout the organising and the day itself. Highly recommended.

George & Hannah
Happy couple married in April
May 2024
Perfect Day at the Perfect Venue

We had a fantastic experience at South Lodge, from the initial inquiry the team were excellent, making us feel at ease throughout the whole process. Beky, Lizzie, Liz and Amanda really are credits to the venue, nothing was too much for them. They also provided us with Toastmaster Dan who we couldn't have coped without on the day. We would highly recommend to anyone.

Lucie & John
Happy couple married in December
February 2024
Christmas wedding at the amazing south lodge!

We got married at South lodge December 2023 and it did not disappoint! We had stayed at south lodge years ago for a special birthday and loved it, so when we were looking at venues we decided we had to take a look. I also looked at pictures of south lodge at Christmas as we had always liked the idea of a winter wedding and it looked incredible! We met the lovely Beky, who later became our wedding co-ordinator, and just pretty much fell in love with South Lodge and the team there who made us feel very special from day one. We met with Beky several times over the months and nothing was ever too much trouble and no request or question too ridiculous!! She had plenty of advice and suggestions too which I really, really appreciated. We did use some of their approved suppliers and they were fabulous and very experienced in working at South Lodge. All of this made it much less stressful and I felt very reassured. The events team as a whole are so so lovely and professional and just want you to have the best day and that really does show, Elizabeth, Amanda, Emily, Charlie, Sophie and the amazing Dan. They smile all day and work really hard! The day itself was amazing, everything went really well thanks to Beky and the team, words can't describe how much we enjoyed it and how much fun we had - I'd do it all over again in a heartbeat!!! Food was delicious, drinks flowed and all of our guests said what a fantastic day it was and what a great hotel South lodge is! Im so glad we got married here and would not hesitate to recommend South Lodge if you are thinking of getting married and if you want a winter wedding it looks incredible, roaring fires and Christmas trees everywhere! Thank you Beky and everyone at South Lodge you made it the best and more L&J xxx

Location & Contact Details for South Lodge

Wedding Venue Address
Brighton Road, West Sussex, West Sussex, RH13 6PS, England, United Kingdom
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Describe the best wedding that happened at South Lodge?

We had a beautiful outside ceremony where the couple adorned our wedding pavilion with hundreds of flowers-It looked stunning!

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

We are here to help! Relax and enjoy the day and let us sort the little touches.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

We had a beautiful Christmas wedding who had a personalised bauble and gift tag for each place setting. The guest then wrote a message for the couple on it and hung it on the tree. A great keepsake to remind them of their special day for Christmases to come.

Describe South Lodge in 5 adjectives

Flexible, Welcoming, Charming, Relaxed, Idyllic

Where’s the best photo spot at South Lodge?

Our picturesque Victorian Rockery or our well manicured lawns featuring the South Downs!

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at South Lodge?

Maybe but we can't say!

What’s your favourite canapé?

Anything with smoked salmon or truffle!

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

The classic bacon roll or mini-fish & chips - they are they crowd pleasers!

What is South Lodge most unique feature?

Our record-breaking Rhododendron in full bloom during Spring!

What part of your business are you most proud of?

Our amazing team who will make all your wedding day dreams come true, helping you every step of the way until your big day!
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