The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)

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£900 - £7,199 for Venue Hire
Up to 120
52 Bedrooms
Exclusive Use
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Description

Entrust your intimate soiree up to grand scale entertaining to The In & Out Club which is beautifully located on a private corner of St James’s Square, London. Licensed to host both Civil Ceremonies, Partnership and celebrations up to 200 for members or non-members. The Club provides a magnificent venue offering an impressive range of grand rooms for a variety of occasions from an intimate dinner, elaborate reception to your big day, we’ll make certain your celebration is truly memorable. Your dedicated events manager together with our experienced banqueting staff will guide you effortlessly from the initial planning stages through to the day. Offering an array of luxurious rooms filled with history, large windows, beautiful paintings, sparkling chandeliers, sweeping staircases, double height ceilings and spectacular fireplaces leading out to a secluded outdoor Courtyard which is a sheer delight for taking scenic photographs, alfresco soirées and receptions. The other distinctive privileges we can offer you are private access to the stunning adjacent St James Square gardens which make a spectacular setting for photographs and the option of a late license so you can enjoy the dancefloor longer! Then to continue your celebrations you can enjoy the opulence of reserving additional bedrooms for your guests to enjoy or spend your special night in our luxury bridal suite. To discuss the options available, please do not hesitate to email [email protected]

Personal Message from the Manager

Name of Wedding Contact: Anthony Lee, Club Secretary & Chief Executive
Thank you for your trust in us to provide an unforgettable occasion. Choosing us means that you have done your research and are looking for something that is bespoke & tailored to your needs. We are here to make life easy for you and to listen to your wishes to make them a reality. As much as the physical aspects of the Club are captivating, what makes this a unique experience are the staff who are the soul of the Club and attend to your every wish with a smile. We love what we do! Best wishes,

Experience

Year Business Was Established
1862
No. of Weddings Hosted
Between 30 and 50
Public Liability Insurance
Yes
No. of People In Team
15

Overview of The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)

Wedding Venue Type
Hotel
Wedding Venue Capacity
Dining Capacity
120
Reception Capacity
200
Wedding Venue Accommodation
No. of Bedrooms
52
Sleeps No. of People
77
Bridal Suite
Honeymoon Suite

Wedding Ceremony & Reception

Church Within Walking Distance
Sound System Available
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Wedding Venue Details

Open Flame Permitted
Grade I/II Listed Building
Marquee Permitted
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Wedding Catering

Corkage Charge for Own Alcohol
In-House Wine List
In-house Catering
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Pricing for The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)

Venue Hire Only

Prices Start At
£900
Maximum Price
£7,199
Should you wish for an intimate wedding, private dining rooms are available to suit any requirement. We would love to know more about your Wedding day and bring your vision to life, so please do not hesitate to get in touch!
What is included in this pricing:
Exclusive use
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
External caterers not permitted
Furniture included
Wedding coordinator available on the day

In-house Catering
(price per head)

Prices Start At
£95
Maximum Price
£146
Address your catering requests to us and let us take care of them! A three course menu and 1/2 bottle of wine can be arranged to a 4 course feast with free-flowing wines and cocktails.
What is included in this pricing:
Wine allowance per guest
Corkage charge applicable
Set menu options only
Cutlery included
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Table linen included

Packages
(price per head)

Prices Start At
£180
Maximum Price
£240
Minimum Number of Guests
40
It will be a delight to celebrate your Wedding Day at the In & Out! Contact us for further information, packages and availability.
What is included in this pricing:
Canapés included
Furniture included
Private room(s) included (non-exclusive use)
Wine / soft drinks allowance per guest
Multiple course wedding breakfast
Wedding coordinator available on the day
Non consumables (e.g. linen, lights etc.)
Day before set up available
Couple accommodation included

Reviews for The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)
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Clare W
Wedding: April
April 2024
Many Thanks

Dear Mr Leal, I celebrated my birthday at the 'In & Out' on Friday, 5th April and we were so impressed with how smoothly everything went. I felt I must write to thank you. The team were excellent, anticipating our every need and the dinner was outstanding. Well done to all! Many thanks and best wishes,

Lilly A
Happy couple married in November
April 2024
All in all, a magical experience!

With regards to the wedding reception it was wonderful but to make it easier I’ll list the hits and misses: HIT: The In and Out –it is outstanding, every guest thought it was akin to attending a royal event and thought the champagne reception starting straight as they arrived was great as there weren’t standing around waiting for the Gareth and I to arrive. HIT: Security was on-point at the door and coat check was fantastic. HIT: I appreciated that the staff allowed myself and my bridesmaids to take over the coffee room the night before to decorate and in the morning to check everything was in the right place. MISS: We would’ve really liked tables and more chairs in the room where the dance floor was as a number of guests were sitting by the windows with no chairs. MISS: Guests had no idea they had access to the Canning Room (I think that was the one) to have a seat while the Champagne reception was on-going. There are ample seats in there and a number of our elderly guests would’ve been excited to know there was another space to use. It wasn’t until Gareth and I told guests and instructed our bridemaids and groomsmen to let people know they were allowed to go in there. Also that guests would’ve had access to a cash bar for other drinks rather than champagne. HIT: Staff was very attentive to anything we needed to have done in a moments notice HIT: THE FOOD WAS INCREDIBLE. I have never been to a wedding where guests ate everything off their plates. Everything tasted extraordinary. All dietary requirements and allergies were considered and nothing went array which was fantastic. (One little MISS: my brother left the head table before he got to eat his chocolate desert to have a look at the wedding cake and chat with some friends – when he came back the head table was cleared.. but that was his fault for leaving it there too long 😊 ). HIT: the dancefloor was a dream, but as I mentioned it would’ve been nice to have tables and chairs in that big room so people could enjoy the cheese and fruit table and drinks sitting down watching the dancing. All in all, it was a magical experience and I can’t believe we pulled it together, all out guests said it was the most elegant, happy and fun wedding they have ever been to.

Matthew
Happy couple married in September
April 2024
Amazing wedding day at The In & Out

We would like to say once again that we had an amazing wedding day at The In & Out - everything from the building itself, which provided a wonderful setting for our wedding ceremony & celebrations, the food, which even impressed the Italians(!), and, of course, the staff who were so pleasant and helpful throughout the day. Also our special thanks and appreciation to you both, and to Pablo, Naomi and Jodie, for your help, support and patience throughout - from our first visit to the Club, to dealing with our many (many) questions, and then on the day itself. Each of you played an important part in making the last year's planning come together in an unforgettable day not only for us but also our families and friends. Thank you & grazie!

Courtney
Happy couple married in October
April 2024
Our guests were blown away!

I am finally recovering from the fog of our event....and I just wanted to give everyone at the In & Out a massive thank you from Tom and I both. Our guests were blown away by the venue, the food and the overall greatness of everything. What a fabulous party!

Anna
Happy couple married in December
April 2024
We had a great day!

We had a great day! Please extend sincere thanks to the fantastic chefs / bar / serving staff - and yourself - for all your efforts on the day.

Al
Happy couple married in December
April 2024
We are extremely grateful

A huge thank you for all of your help on the lead up to our wedding. We are extremely grateful for the effort you made to ensure our special day ran smoothly. The team executed everything superbly and made all of our family and friends feel welcome at the Club

Johanna
Happy couple married in June
April 2024
I got my fairy tale wedding!

Yes many thanks to you and your team for helping to make our day so magical. I really got my fairy tale wedding! I was SO pleased with the way my vision for the decorations turned out.

Lindy
Wedding: July
April 2024
Really happy with everything!

I just wanted to say a huge thanks for making Suzanne and Sam’s day so perfect. They were really happy with everything and that’s down to all of you! I hope you all have a great week ahead and I look forward to working with you again, hopefully in the near future.

John
Wedding: September
April 2024
We thoroughly enjoyed it!

Thank you so much and our thanks to Dalia and the team for the work which you all put in to make Dell and Ben's wedding a success. We thoroughly enjoyed it and it seemed to run like clockwork, something which I know it takes a lot of hard work to achieve. A number of the guests said that it was the best wedding that they had ever been to and I thought it was a great credit to all of you and to the In and Out itself. We really are most grateful.

Louise
Happy couple married in December
April 2024
We had the most amazing weekend!

We had the most amazing weekend! I don’t know where to begin. We had the most amazing weekend. Your staff were simply outstanding. Every guest loved the venue! The food was exceptional. Full tummies all round! Please pass our thanks to your incredible chefs! The service was amazing. Every detail was perfect. The staff were unbelievable. In specific Angelo, Surjit, Paulina, Nick and Ruslan! They were all amazing and my parents loved how much help they gave us all. (Please pass on our gratitude). We had the most fabulous time. Our family and friends have all said it’s the best Wedding they have been to. I’m so grateful for all the hard work you and your team put in to making our day so special.

Location & Contact Details for The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)

Wedding Venue Address
St James's Square, London, Greater London, SW1Y 4JU, England, United Kingdom
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Describe the best wedding that happened at The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)?

We had the pleasure to celebrate a special Couple's wedding on New Years Eve. The DJ performed an excellent job and the build up to the New Years Countdown was electric. The perfect celebration to conclude the bridal couples perfect day and see in the New Year with their close family & friends.

What is your No. 1 wedding planning tip for couples?

Trust your suppliers! They are experts for a reason. Once you've found your perfect suppliers, communicate your vision clearly and gain their valuable and expert opinions and advice.

What’s your favourite personal touch you’ve seen at a wedding?

The Club had the pleasure to host a beautiful portrait artist who managed to hand paint beautiful A5 size portraits of the Wedding guests of them to take away and remember the Couple's special day.

Describe The In & Out (Naval and Military Club) in 5 adjectives

Elegant, Exclusive, Impeccable Luxurious & Traditional,

Where’s the best photo spot at The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)?

By fair the Grand Staircase is a photograph MUST. A beautiful, sweeping staircase provides the perfect opportunity to gather all your Friends and Family to capture the day spend together. For more intimate photograph opportunities, the exclusive use of St James's Square Gardens provides a quaint, secret garden setting with plenty of natural sunlight.

Have you had any celebrity guest or wedding at The In & Out (Naval and Military Club)?

Many familiar faces have graced the In & Out Club with their presence and flair while enjoying the home away from home feel that the Club takes pride in.

What’s your favourite canapé?

Our Executive Head Chef, Gary, will no doubt ensure that no guest is left feeling hungry with his succulent dishes. However, favours the Smoked Salmon Blini with Wasabi and Pickled Mango for a refreshing bite with plenty of flavour.

What’s your favourite midnight treat?

A popular late night treat, following all the Champagne and dancing is a beautifully selected Cheese Board complimented with artisan biscuits, fruits and chutneys.

What is The In & Out (Naval and Military Club) most unique feature?

It is sometimes hard to believe that a tranquil Courtyard is nestled within the heart of the Club that provides calm within the City's hustle and bustle; and opportunity to take advantage of the British sunshine and cool glass of Pimm's. Be sure to spend the night behind the door of Number Four in the opulent Canning Suite and further 51 on-site bedrooms for any weary wedding guest.

What part of your business are you most proud of?

A good business can only ever be as successful as the team. The charismatic, dedicated team at the In & Out will no doubt leave you feeling confident that your big day will be a memorable occasion to share with your close ones for years to come.

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Bridebook GiftFree Bottle of Champagne
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