65 years of marriage is an achievement that not many couples have the fortune of celebrating. It’s proof that you and your partner have oodles of love and dedication. It’s a wonderful time and one that your family and friends are no doubt excited to honour alongside you.

Like with previous milestone anniversaries, your 65th anniversary has an overarching theme that encompasses the whole thing. That theme is blue sapphire, a truly stunning precious gemstone that has a lot of versatility.

If you’ve given your partner traditional or modern anniversary gifts in the past, you might remember that sapphire was also the theme of your 45th anniversary. So, this theme is incredibly similar, only now the theme is specifically blue sapphire.

You shouldn’t feel like you have to give your partner something related to blue sapphire when celebrating your anniversary. It’s not a theme that suits everyone’s tastes, but it does have a lovely meaning behind it. Thankfully, because of the versatility, there’s plenty of room for creativity. So, even if your partner isn’t into sapphire, there are still ways to have fun with the theme.

In this guide, we’re going to tell you all about 65th wedding anniversary gifts. We’ll also give you 25 ideas to help you as you search for the perfect present for your other half to mark your special day.

To learn more about the different anniversary gifts for every important milestone, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.

What are traditional and modern gifts for a 65th wedding anniversary?

The traditional and modern 65th wedding anniversary gifts

Your 65th wedding anniversary is also known as your blue sapphire anniversary, so you won’t be surprised to learn that blue sapphire is the only theme associated with it. This is similar to your other recent milestones, such as your 60th, which was your diamond anniversary.

But just because there’s only one theme for this anniversary, it doesn’t mean you can’t be creative with it!

Traditional 65th anniversary gift – Sapphire

The traditional 65th anniversary gift is sapphire, or specifically, blue sapphire. Sapphire is an absolutely brilliant precious stone that always makes for a special gift. Only now, it has extra special historical meaning. Sapphire represents fortune, faithfulness and wisdom, which are three things you’re more than likely familiar with after 65 years of marriage.

Modern 65th anniversary gift – Sapphire

The modern 65th wedding anniversary gift is also blue sapphire. Because why complicate this already-special milestone by adding another type of gift? But as the theme is specifically blue sapphire, the theme is open to interpretation. This means you have a wide range of gifts to choose from, not just jewellery.

65th anniversary gemstone – Sapphire

Unsurprisingly, the traditional 65th anniversary gemstone is also sapphire. Sapphire is one of the four precious gemstones (along with diamond, ruby and emerald), so is an incredibly popular stone used in jewellery and accessories. It can also be quite pricey, but if you spend a little time looking, you can also find sapphire jewellery that’s relatively reasonable. But because sapphire is so popular, you’ll always have a huge selection to choose from.

65th anniversary flower – There isn’t one

Similar to your other recent milestones, there isn’t a traditional flower associated with your 65th anniversary. That means if you want to give your other half flowers, you’re free to give them whatever you – and they – love. You could even give them flowers the same colour as a blue sapphire, like roses, tulips or hyacinths.

How do you choose a gift for a 65th wedding anniversary?

Choosing the perfect give to give the love of your life on your 65th anniversary may seem like an obvious choice at first. Sapphire is a beautiful gemstone, and there are so many different pieces of jewellery that contain it. But, you don’t have to default to simply buying jewellery (as much as your partner might love it). So, before you head out and buy a big, blue sapphire, here are a few things to consider.

Are you set on giving your partner the traditional 65th anniversary gift? You’ve hit a major milestone, so giving a gift associated with sapphire might be a priority for you.
Do you have a specific budget in mind? Although not all of them are, sapphires can be pretty expensive. So, if you only have a small budget, you might struggle a little.
Do you want to give your partner a personalised gift? Because it’s often so pricey, you generally won’t find many places that personalise sapphire jewellery, but there are still other ways to do it if you think outside the box.
Is your partner expecting something specific? This could be some sapphire jewellery, or they may have asked you for something else entirely.

65 years is an amazing milestone. If a couple in your life is about to celebrate 65 happy years together, you might be on the hunt for a gift to show them just how much they mean to you. As part of that, you also might want to know whether or not you can join in with the traditional gift-giving fun with a gift related to the theme of sapphire. Well, the great news is, of course you can! Any gift will no doubt be hugely appreciated, but if you can find something that can also link back to the traditional theme, they’ll see just how much thought and effort went into your generous gift.

25 ideas for a 65th wedding anniversary gift

Your 65th wedding anniversary is an incredible step in your lives, and you might want to mark the occasion by spoiling your partner with a gift. The first thing that comes to mind is, of course, sapphire jewellery, but there are many other options out there if you don’t want to be quite as obvious. Below, we’ll list our choices for great 65th anniversary gift suggestions to help give you a little inspiration.

10 traditional and modern gifts for a 65th wedding anniversary

If you’re excited to give your partner a gift on your 65th anniversary, there are plenty of ways to do that while incorporating the traditional and modern themes of sapphire. There are lots of choices when it comes to jewellery (more on this below), but you can also give sapphire-related gifts that are a little bit different. Here are 10 65th anniversary gift ideas to get you started.

1. A Dartington crystal sapphire unity bowl

For a beautiful gift that can be displayed proudly as a table centrepiece or be saved for a special occasion, this Dartington crystal sapphire unity bowl is a wonderful choice. It has a paperweight-style orb with swirling blue patterns and can be used however your partner likes, from a fruit bowl to a serving bowl.

2. A Bombay Sapphire gift set

If your partner is partial to a cheeky G&T, then they’ll absolutely love this Bombay Sapphire gift set. It contains three different gins, including one special edition. Just make sure not to forget the tonic!

3. A blue sapphire pebble art picture

You and your partner have stood side by side for more than six decades. This blue sapphire pebble art picture sums up the closeness between you and is a romantic and thoughtful gesture that can be displayed somewhere at home.

4. Raw blue sapphire crystals

Before it’s cut and polished, sapphire has a much more raw and rustic appearance – but is still just as striking and beautiful. A gift box of blue sapphire crystals is a lovely token gift. It’s also thought that they help relieve tension and lighten your mood.

5. An item of antique sapphire jewellery

Jewellery makers have been using sapphires for hundreds of years, and there are plenty of treasures out there waiting to be found. An item of antique sapphire jewellery makes a bold statement and you might just find a rare item your partner will adore.

6. A 65th anniversary commemorative coin

A sweet token gift to give your partner if you’re not looking to spend too much is a 65th anniversary commemorative coin. It’s a great way to stick to the theme if your partner isn’t much of a fan of this precious stone.

7. A lucky blue butterfly

Delight your partner with this lucky blue butterfly, which is an absolutely beautiful ornament, hand-made by expert glassmakers. While it’s not made of sapphire, it has that incredibly luxurious blue sapphire feel.

8. A blue sapphire family tree decoration

If you have a growing family with kids and grandkids, a blue sapphire family tree decoration lets you honour the entire gang. It’s a lovely little display item protected by a glass dome and can include up to 12 family members.

9. A sapphire photo frame

It’s been 65 years since the two of you got married. You might have changed a bit since then, but you clearly still have bucket loads of love for each other. Print out your favourite photo together, or even one that includes your whole family, and frame it in a sapphire photo frame.

10. Blue Sapphire abstract oil painting

To add a real contemporary feel to a room, this Blue Sapphire abstract oil painting is the perfect choice for your 65th anniversary. It might not fit everyone’s decor, but it would really hit the mark if your partner loves abstract art.

5 personalised gifts for a 65th wedding anniversary

Many couples love to surprise their partners by giving them a personalised gift to mark their anniversary. It adds an extra level of thought and consideration to a gift, as well as just being downright cute. You might not be able to customise many items of sapphire jewellery, but you can give something linked to the theme that has your own personal touch. Here are five ideas for personalised gifts for your 65th anniversary.

1. A personalised blue crystal heart

A thoughtful way to always remember your special milestone is with a personalised blue crystal heart. It includes your names and the date you got married, and is adorned with delicate blue flowers.

2. A personalised 65th anniversary wall clock

For a big, bold and bright way to honour your anniversary, this personalised 65th anniversary wall clock can be hung on a wall as a constant reminder of what you’ve achieved together.

3. A personalised sapphire necklace

Help your partner keep their memories close to their heart with this personalised sapphire necklace. It’s made from sterling silver and can be engraved with the names of your choosing, and also includes a real sapphire.

4. A personalised 65th anniversary gift platter

A personalised 65th anniversary gift platter is perfect if your other half loves to entertain. You can choose the size and what you’d like to include on the platter, which is decorated with lovely blue flowers and includes a delightfully meaningful message.

5. A personalised bottle of Bombay Sapphire gin

What’s the one way you could make a bottle of gin even better when celebrating your 65th anniversary? Well, how about a personalised bottle of Bombay Sapphire gin? The perfect tipple to enjoy on the big day.

5 65th anniversary jewellery gifts that contain sapphire

Sapphires are sensational gemstones and are included in practically every different type of jewellery you could think of. They’re also massively popular and sought after, which can make a lot of sapphire jewellery expensive. But, if you have a smaller budget, don’t worry – you can often find something more affordable if you keep a lookout. Here are five suggestions for 65th wedding anniversary jewellery that contains sapphire.

1. A sapphire bracelet

It’s almost like sapphires were made to be set in a bracelet, they’re just that good. A sapphire bracelet makes for a great choice. With so many different styles and designs available, it shouldn’t take you long to find something your partner will love.

2. A sapphire eternity ring

Sapphires pair with diamonds beautifully, so a sapphire eternity ring is a surefire way to light up your partner’s face on your anniversary. There are also loads of different choices out there, which can be big and bold or small and dainty.

3. A gold, diamond and sapphire brooch

A great gift to make your other half’s outfit pop, this gold, diamond and sapphire brooch is full to the brim with class and sophistication. It’s definitely something they’ll want to wear every time you head out to celebrate something special.

4. A pair of sapphire cufflinks

If your partner often wears a suit, they’ll love to receive a pair of sapphire cufflinks. And you’re absolutely spoiled for choice. Because there are so many to pick from, the hardest thing will be narrowing it down to just one.

5. A sapphire necklace

Whether your partner would love a huge sapphire or something more delicate, you can find something perfect for them with a sapphire necklace. You might even find something reminiscent of the Heart of the Ocean, like in the movie Titanic!

Sapphires are truly gorgeous, and you could do a lot worse than choosing to give one to your partner to commemorate 65 years. Because of their popularity, you should be able to walk into any high street or independent jeweller and find a massive amount of choice. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with a range of jewellers who each have some lovely sapphire jewellery too, so make sure you check them out while you’re browsing.

5 floral-inspired gifts for a 65th wedding anniversary

Flowers are always a winning gift to give on your anniversary. Flowers are known for the loving message they send, so while there isn’t a traditional 65th anniversary flower, they still have a brilliant meaning. But, there are still ways you can tie flowers into the theme of sapphire, which makes them even more special. Here are five floral gifts for a 65th wedding anniversary.

1. A blue sapphire rose bush

Roses are known as a major symbol of love, so a blue sapphire rose bush might just be the most perfect floral gift you can give your partner to honour 65 years together.

2. A crystal blue sapphire bouquet

For a floral arrangement guaranteed never to wilt, this crystal blue sapphire bouquet is as unique as it is eye-catching. It would look great on a shelf as a constant reminder of your 65th anniversary.

3. A royal blue individual long-stem rose

One of the most romantic gestures you could do for your partner on your sapphire anniversary is to surprise them with a royal blue individual long-stem rose. It’s a real rose that’s guaranteed to last at least a year and never needs to be watered.

4. A sapphire iris

Fill your back garden with extra romantic meaning with a sapphire iris. Plant in the ground or in a pot in the autumn and it should be one of the first to flower the following spring. It’s a lovely delicate flower that represents trust and wisdom.

5. A pair of sapphire flower stud earrings

You could combine flowers with the traditional 65th anniversary gift and treat your other half to a pair of sapphire flower stud earrings. They’re small but make a big impact, and are available in gold, white gold or rose gold.

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Mike Jeavons

Last updated: 18th Oct 2024

65th Wedding Anniversary Gifts: 25 Anniversary Gift Ideas