If you’re about to celebrate your 17th wedding anniversary, congratulations! 17 years of marriage is an incredible achievement and one you’re no doubt excited to celebrate. In some cultures, the number 17 is considered unlucky, but that clearly doesn’t apply to you as you prepare to celebrate this amazing milestone.
One thing you might like to do on your 17th anniversary is treat your partner to a gift and show them just how much they mean to you and always will. But, what kind of gift do you give to the love of your life at this stage in your marriage? Well, did you know that for more than 100 years, there have been gifts traditionally given by couples to each other? That’s right, it’s not just the big milestones like your 10th anniversary or 25th anniversary where this applies. There are also traditional and modern gifts for your 17th anniversary.
These gifts go beyond the usual box of chocolates and have an extra special meaning behind them which makes them worthy of such a fabulous milestone. Not that a box of chocolates or any other type of gift isn’t amazing, but the symbolism behind the traditional and modern gifts takes your gift-giving to the next level.
In this article, we’re going to take a look at what the traditional and modern 17th anniversary gifts are, as well as the traditional gemstone and flower. We’ll also give you 50 suggestions for gifts to consider so you can spoil your other half with something full of love and meaning.
For more information about all the different traditions surrounding anniversary gifts from 1 to 90 years, read our complete year-by-year wedding anniversary gift guide.
What are traditional and modern gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary?
Both the traditional and modern anniversary gifts for 17 years of marriage have been given by couples to each other for more than a century. These gifts are packed with symbolism, which is what makes them such a thoughtful gesture, as they let your partner know how you feel about them. They’re not something you must get for them; of course, any gift is brilliant and will surely be well-received. But these traditions help make your anniversary that little bit more special.
Traditional 17th anniversary gift – A watch
The traditional gift for celebrating 17 years of marriage is a watch. Watches symbolise the passing of time, and your past, present and future as a couple. It’s not exactly a gift that you can have too much creativity with (although there are ways, which we’ll show you below). A watch was also the modern gift for your 15th anniversary, so if you didn’t get your partner one two years ago, it’s definitely something to consider now.
Modern 17th anniversary gift – Furniture
If you’d prefer to give your partner the modern 17th anniversary gift, you’ll want to give them furniture. Initially, it may seem a bit of a strange gift, but it represents comfort and familiarity, which actually makes it very meaningful. You might not necessarily want to get your partner a flatpack wardrobe (unless they’ve asked for one or you think they’d love it – in which case, go for it!), but there’s a lot of fun you can have with the theme.
17th anniversary gemstone – Carnelian
The traditional 17th anniversary gemstone is carnelian, a fabulous red and brown semi-precious stone that is said to boost creativity and self-esteem. When it comes to your relationship, carnelian protects your marriage and brings your energy. Carnelian isn’t one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery, but you should still have a lot to choose from so you can find something perfect for your partner.
17th anniversary flower – Red carnation
The traditional 17th anniversary flower is the red carnation, a beautifully big, bold bloom which isa wonderful addition to any bouquet, but which also works perfectly well as the star of the show. Carnations represent love and devotion, so could there be a flower more appropriate to give to your other half when celebrating 17 years of loving marriage?
How do you choose a gift for a 17th wedding anniversary?
Buying the perfect gift for your other half for your 17th wedding anniversary can be a tricky decision. There may be a lot of choice, but the themes are perhaps not the most obvious when it comes to a romantic gift your partner would love to receive. Your partner might not wear a watch or have heard of a carnelian before, and there might not be any room for more furniture in your home.
But don’t let this sway you just yet. Before you make your decision, there are a few things to consider.
- Is sticking to one of the anniversary themes important to you? If it is, you’ll want to figure out a way to make the themes work for you.
- Have you agreed on a budget? Watches and furniture can vary wildly in price, so both would suit a variety of budgets.
- Do you want to give your partner a gift that can be personalised? Watches are easier to personalise than furniture, but that’s not to say it’s impossible.
- What sort of gift might your partner like to receive? Maybe you’ve spoken about themed gifts or they’ve dropped hints about something else they might like instead.
Is a couple you love about to celebrate their 17th anniversary? If so, you might be on the hunt for a gift and wonder whether you can get in on the action and give them a gift also linked to either the traditional or modern themes. These themes are for everyone, not just the couple, so if you’ve thought of the perfect gift which also just happens to be on theme, then you should definitely feel free to join in on the fun. The theme isn’t exclusive to the couple and shows them just how much you care by putting in that extra bit of thought and effort.
50 ideas for a 17th wedding anniversary gift
The 17th anniversary themes aren’t quite as obviously romantic as they are with other anniversaries. But, you might still be keen to honour the traditions and give your partner a gift filled with historical meaning. With a little creativity you can give your partner something they can enjoy and treasure for many years to come – but where do you start? Thankfully, we’re here with 50 ideas for 17th wedding anniversary gifts to help you choose something for your other half.
10 traditional gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary
The traditional 17th wedding anniversary gift is a watch, which is a gift that’s fairly self-explanatory so doesn’t leave many options for fun and creativity. But, there are still ways to do something a little different and unique, even if they don’t seem obvious at first. Here are 10 ideas so you can give your partner a watch they’ll never want to be apart from.
1. A carnelian eWatch watch
With a carnelian eWatch watch, not only do you give your partner a pretty swish-looking watch, but it’s also got a carnelian face which can be personalised to include your names and the date of your wedding or anniversary. It’s available in his and her designs and is a beautifully subtle gift your partner can always wear.
2. An engraved wooden watch
For a watch that’s bold and rustic but still incredibly stylish, you might want to choose an engraved wooden watch. It’s made to order and includes a custom message on the back so your other half can always keep a part of you close by.
3. A 17th anniversary watch gift box
This smart men’s Openwork Watch is presented in a gift box complete with a personalised message, and you really can’t go wrong with a 17th anniversary watch gift box. The back of the watch is also open which allows you to see the intricate workings inside.
4. A carnelian ring watch
For something incredibly unique, a carnelian ring watch is a personalisable watch that your partner can wear around their neck. It also features a callback to the 17th anniversary gemstone which makes it a double-hitter.
5. A rose gold watch gift set
Spoil your partner on your anniversary with a rose gold watch gift set. It covers the theme with the inclusion of a lovely rose gold watch, but it also comes with earrings, a necklace and a bangle, providing your other half with every accessory they might need for a big night out.
6. A carnation gold mesh watch
Combine the traditional gift and the traditional flower with a carnation gold mesh watch, a multifunctional watch that has a business-chic feel. Because it covers two traditional gifts, it has double the symbolic meaning, too.
7. A unique Mr Jones watch
If your partner has a style that wouldn’t necessarily be described as ‘normal’, then a bog-standard watch probably won’t push their buttons. Instead, you could get them a unique Mr Jones watch, which comes in a variety of incredible designs, including lazing in the pool, pinball-playing robots and a motorway road sign.
8. A delicate walnut and walnut watch
For a delicate but beautiful way to tell the time, a Holzkern walnut and walnut watch is reminiscent of a bracelet but versatile so that it can go with a wide range of styles and outfits.
9. A personalised photo watch
To give your partner a watch like no other, a personalised photo watch will really do the trick. You can customise the face by uploading your own choice of photo, which could be the two of you, your cat, or maybe even your kids.
10. A watch for a charm bracelet
Does your partner have a charm bracelet and love collecting charms to add their own personal memories which can be swapped out? If so, then a watch charm for a charm bracelet is a tiny perfectly on-theme gift which your partner can wear and which will always remind them of your amazing milestone.
10 modern gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary
If you’re not sure that your partner would love a watch or you gave them one for your anniversary a couple of years ago, you might want to choose the modern gift, which is furniture. Furniture isn’t often considered something you might give as a gift – after all, have you ever tried to wrap up a sofa? That said, furniture is a rather broad theme, so cancel that trip to DFS and take a look at these 10 suggestions for furniture-themed gifts which don’t necessarily mean forking out for a new three-piece suite.
1. A pair of smart bedside tables
We bet that if most of us are honest, our bedside tables are probably past their best. So, you could take the opportunity to pick up a pair of smart bedside tables and bring a breath of fresh air to your bedroom.
2. A lovely new rug
Transform any room in your home by giving your partner a lovely new rug for your anniversary. There’s nothing quite like the feeling of a new rug between your toes. Many retailers sell rugs, but they have a great selection over at Rug Shop to suit all styles, tastes and budgets.
3. A modern bookshelf
For the avid reader in your life, a modern bookshelf provides you with a contemporary way for your other half to keep their favourite books in order.
4. A sit-stand desk
If your partner works from home regularly and often complains about their back, then this gift sounds like it was made for them. A sit-stand desk can be adjusted quickly and easily, so your partner can choose to either sit down or stand up. They’re also said to improve productivity and posture, so it’s a win-win.
5. A comfortable armchair
There’s nothing quite like climbing into a big, comfortable armchair to enjoy a book, watch a movie, have a nap or any of the other things your other half might like to do in an armchair. Check out Marks and Spencer’s range of armchairs to find one that suits your decor.
6. A coffee table arcade machine
For the retro gamer in your life, give them the surprise of a lifetime by switching out your old coffee table and replacing it with a coffee table arcade machine. These tables are completely customisable, include two sets of controls for multiplayer madness and come loaded with more than 1,000 games.
7. Design-your-own coffee table
We bet you haven’t got another piece of furniture quite like this at home. A design-your-own coffee table lets you upload your own photograph which is then printed and handmade, so you can give your partner a one-of-a-kind gift to mark your big day.
8. A romantic loveseat
Give your partner a gift that lets you get snuggly on date night, with a romantic loveseat. They’re available in loads of different colours, styles and designs, so finding one that suits your home shouldn’t take long.
9. Floating book bookshelves
Floating book bookshelves let your partner display their favourite books seemingly by magic, which is great for creating a fun and unique way to store their books.
10. A hardwood storage box
If you have a little room at the end of your bed, a hardwood storage box provides ample storage space for bedding, towels and cushions, while being a centrepiece that can help bring a room together.
5 affordable gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary
Both the themes of a watch and furniture are rather different, meaning you can certainly choose to give your other half a unique gift to mark your anniversary. But, both can also be quite expensive, which might not be suitable if you have a smaller budget. That said, with a little creativity, if you’re only looking to give your partner a small token gift, you can absolutely do that without the need to spend more than you’d like. Here are five suggestions for cheap 17th wedding anniversary gifts.
1. A cute pair of chair stud earrings
There’s nothing to say the furniture theme has to be something life-size. This pair of chair stud earrings is incredibly cute and a funny yet thoughtful way to incorporate the modern theme into your gift.
2. A furniture-themed anniversary card
If you’re planning to give your partner an anniversary card, you could make sure it’s linked to the modern gift by getting them a furniture-themed anniversary card. It includes a great sofa-related pun, and who doesn’t love a good pun?
3. A bag of retro candy watches
Give your partner a sweet (literally) and affordable gift in the form of a bag of retro candy watches. They wrap around your partner’s wrist so they have a sweet treat on hand (also literally) at all times. That is, unless they scoff them all first, which is likely.
4. A Casio unisex watch
It might not have all the glitz and sparkle of an expensive watch, but at the end of the day, a Casio unisex watch tells the time and that’s all many of us expect from a watch. A solid and dependable affordable gift.
5. A pocket watch necklace
Not only is a pocket watch necklace a fabulously affordable gift, but it’s also fashionable and a quirky way to stick to the traditional 17th anniversary theme.
5 DIY gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary
If you really want to do something unique and special for your anniversary, you might consider making your partner’s gift yourself. Okay, so making your own furniture or watch from scratch might be a tall ask unless you have prior experience, but it’s not impossible. There are ways to get creative or pick up a kit so you can have a stab at doing something. Here are five ideas to get those creative juices flowing.
1. Decorate your own stool
You can really have some messy fun by decorating your own stool in a way that your partner will love. Be as imaginative as you like, whether it’s adding colours, cushions, a photograph, crystals… the possibilities are endless. Just pick up a cheap stool from IKEA and get to work!
2. Upcycle an old piece of furniture
Upcycling is a brilliant way to take an old, tired piece of furniture and turn it into something fresh and modern. It makes for a fun project, lets you have a creative outlet and leaves you with a fab gift at the end of it. You can find affordable furniture at charity shops and auctions, and there’s information on ways to upcycle furniture available online.
3. Make your own cosy pet bed
Do you and your partner have a beloved furbaby whom you love dearly and who can do no wrong? Well, one thing you might want to make for your partner (but really for your four-legged friend) is to make them a pet bed that’s completely one-of-a-kind. There are video tutorials available online to give you a helping hand.
4. A Swiss watchmaking kit
Watchmaking is a tough but hugely rewarding skill, but it can be even tougher knowing where to start. If you’d like to have a go at making your partner a watch for your 17th anniversary, a Swiss watchmaking kit provides you with everything you need.
5. A DIY wooden clock
Okay, so this one is bending the rules, but only slightly – because a clock is just a big watch, right? But it’s too good not to include. A DIY wooden clock kit is a simple way for you to create a custom clock to include anything from colours to photographs.
5 experience or activity gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary
If you’re looking for a way to make your 17th wedding anniversary extra special, why not whisk your partner away so the two of you can enjoy an activity or experience together? You don’t necessarily need to go to Paris or sit down for a Michelin-star meal either. You can tie what you do into the traditional and modern themes to make them even more memorable. So, here are five suggestions for new and interesting things to do.
1. A furniture-making course
If you and your partner have ever fancied having a go at making some furniture yourself, then a furniture-making course could just be the ideal gift. There are a range of courses available, from upholstery workshops to stool-making courses.
2. Browse ancient furniture at the V&A
The Victoria & Albert Museum is an amazing museum in South Kensington, just a little south of Hyde Park. It features incredible exhibits around art and design, including a huge collection of furniture which goes back hundreds of years. It’s the perfect way to incorporate the modern theme into an anniversary trip to London.
3. A watchmaking workshop
So much goes into watchmaking. It’s a time-consuming (see what we did there?) and intricate skill to learn. But, with a watchmaking workshop, you can find out all about what goes into it, and even have a go at it yourself.
4. Take a romantic trip to Basel, Switzerland
Switzerland is known for producing some of the best and most luxurious watches in the world. If you have the time and budget, you might consider a weekend away to Basel, which is even home to an annual watch fair. Check out Lonely Planet for more information on exploring Basel’s must-see attractions and planning your next getaway.
5. A trip to Coventry Watch Museum
For something a little bit different, take a trip back through time (we just can’t stop with these puns) and view a huge collection of antique watches at Coventry Watch Museum. You’ll have the time of your life (sorry, we’ll stop now)!
10 17th anniversary gifts that contain carnelian
If you’ve got your sights set on a piece of jewellery to give to your partner on your 17th anniversary, they’ll no doubt love it. But, you could tie that jewellery into the theme by making sure it contains the traditional 17th anniversary gemstone, which is carnelian. It’s not one of the most commonly used stones in jewellery, but its reddish-brown colour makes for a great addition to a variety of pieces (usually gold). You might want to consider the following pieces that can be set with carnelian:
- Earrings
- A ring
- A necklace
- A bracelet
- A broach
- A locket
- A watch
- An anklet
- A hairpin
- Cufflinks
Because carnelian isn’t one of the more popular gemstones, it can be a little more difficult to find a piece you think your partner might love. High-street and independent jewellers may have a small range of pieces which include carnelian, but you may have to visit various stores. At Bridebook, we’ve partnered with loads of brilliant jewellers, many of which have a selection of carnelian jewellery. Make sure you check them out in your search.
5 floral-inspired gifts for a 17th wedding anniversary
Flowers are a worldwide symbol of love, so you may be considering giving your partner something blooming brilliant on your anniversary. The traditional 17th anniversary flower is the red carnation, a big brightly coloured bloom that’s full of life. It works great in a bouquet, but also as the inspiration for other gifts. Here are five suggestions for carnation-inspired gifts.
1. A bouquet of red carnations
A bouquet of red carnations is a vibrant, bold and beautiful gift to give to your partner to mark your anniversary. Just an explosion of vivid colour which lets them know exactly how you feel.
2. Handmade red carnation earrings
If your partner likes to wear fabulously unique earrings, then a pair of handmade red carnation earrings might be right up their street. They’re unique but subtle enough to be worn on a wide variety of occasions.
3. A red carnation bowl
For a touch of retro class, a red carnation bowl is a versatile and perfectly on-theme gift that’s also beautiful and practical. It ticks all the right boxes.
4. A hand-knitted carnation
Give your partner a floral gift that’s guaranteed to never wilt in the form of a hand-knitted carnation. A super romantic and token gesture which they can hold on to forever.
5. A preserved carnation flower sphere
Light up your partner’s life with a preserved carnation flower sphere. It encapsulates a carnation in resin so it can be displayed on a desk or shelf, and also doubles as a lovely little nightlight or lamp.
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