Intimate Wedding Venues in Ulster

Discover a curated selection of intimate wedding venues in Ulster, perfect for a smaller, more personal celebration. From historic country houses with cosy drawing rooms to charming restaurants nestled in the countryside, Ulster offers a wealth of beautiful settings. These venues specialise in creating a warm, exclusive atmosphere for you and your closest guests, ensuring your day feels truly special.
Whether you envision a romantic elopement or a celebration with up to 50 guests, you'll find spaces designed for meaningful moments. Explore venues offering exclusive-use hire, private dining rooms with spectacular views, and picturesque gardens for your ceremony. This handpicked collection showcases the best small wedding venues Ulster has to offer, each providing an unforgettable backdrop for your story.
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Temple House Estate

Ballymote, County Sligo
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Are you looking for an unusual or slightly alternative wedding venue? You’ve been to lots of great hotel weddings but you’d like something that bit different. Well, this is it; an authentic Country House overlooking a lakeside castle ruin.
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  • 158
  • 14 Bedrooms
  • €7,000 – €7,500
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Errigal Country House Hotel

Cootehill
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Welcome to Errigal Country House Hotel, a charming four-star, family-run wedding destination in the heart of Cootehill, County Cavan. Trust in us to make your wedding dreams come true.
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  • 400
  • 41 Bedrooms
  • €11,300 – €17,000
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Drumhalla House

Rathmullan
Our permanent wedding marquee is situated inside the estates original walled garden. It boasts breathtaking views of Kinnegar beach and the surrounding countryside. The perfect location for that once in a lifetime event.
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  • 300
  • 13 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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BEST WESTERN Sligo Southern Hotel

Sligo
The Sligo Southern Hotel is ideal for any events you maybe organising in the North West Region, located just off the N4 in the heart of Sligo City guarantees easy access and our generous car parking facilities guarantee a smooth arrival.
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  • 350
  • 93 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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St Kyrans Country House

Virginia
St Kyrans Country House is an intimate wedding venue located on the private shores of Lough Ramor in Virginia.This charming boutique Country House offers a picturesque setting for a small, personalized celebration, with breathtaking views of the Lake
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  • 150
  • 8 Bedrooms
  • Affordable ($)
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The Glasshouse

Sligo
For an annual dinner dance, fundraiser or social function, The Glasshouse is an excellent city centre venue. Choose from a range of mouthwatering menus created by the award winning team at the Glasshouse.
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  • 100
  • Affordable ($)
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The Red Bank Restaurant

CARRICK-ON-SHANNON
Experience delicious food and warm hospitality at The Red Bank Restaurant, a family run business located in the heart of picturesque Carrick-On-Shannon in lovely Leitrim, set on the banks of the river Shannon
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  • 25
  • Moderate ($$)
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Four Seasons Hotel & Leisure Club

Carlingford
Celebrate the beginning of your love story, along with your family and friends, at the Four Seasons Hotel, Carlingford with Fairytales from your childhood, including the legend of Queen Meave, the Brown Bull of Cooley and Cuchulainn.
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  • 58 Bedrooms
  • Luxury ($$$)
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Sandhouse Hotel

Rossnowlagh
Celebrating something special? Whether it’s personal or business, The Sandhouse Hotel offers a number of spaces for a fantastic private dining experience. The Glasshouse Restaurant boasts some of the best views with panoramic views over Donegal Bay.
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  • 50 Bedrooms
  • Moderate ($$)
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The Shirley Arms Hotel

Carrickmacross
Our dedicated wedding team are exceptional at all those details – big or small – that are absolutely essential in making your celebration come together seamlessly.
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  • 80
  • 25 Bedrooms
  • Affordable ($)
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Holyrood Hotel

Donegal
Are you planning a special occassion? Whether you are looking for a hot meal, soup and sandwiches, or simply finger food, we cater for any occassion.
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  • 91 Bedrooms
  • Affordable ($)
Everything you need to know about weddings in Ulster

Ulster provides a stunning and historic backdrop for a small wedding. Choosing an intimate venue allows for a more personal experience, giving you quality time with every guest. Many venues specialise in smaller gatherings, offering tailored packages and dedicated service that larger venues can't match.

  • Personal Touch: More budget for bespoke details.
  • Flexibility: Easier to secure unique or non-traditional venues.
  • Atmosphere: A warm, relaxed, and exclusive feel.

To marry legally in Ireland, you must give three months' notice to a Registrar, in person. This applies regardless of your nationality. You'll need to book an appointment and provide documents like passports and birth certificates.

Ceremony Options:

  • Civil: Held at a Registry Office or an approved venue.
  • Religious/Secular: Can take place almost anywhere with a registered solemniser.
  • Humanist: A non-religious option popular for its personal focus.

The cost of an intimate wedding venue in Ulster can vary significantly. Exclusive-use hire for a small country house might range from €3,000 to €8,000 for the day. Boutique hotels and restaurants often work on a minimum spend basis, which can be more cost-effective for smaller guest lists.

Average Per-Person Package:

  • Mid-Range: Expect to pay €80 - €150 per guest.
  • Luxury: Prices can be €150+ per guest.

What packages typically include:

  • Room hire for ceremony and reception.
  • A set menu (e.g., 3-course meal).
  • A drinks package (e.g., arrival drink, wine with meal, toast).
  • Venue coordinator support.

Saving Tips for Small Weddings:

  • Mid-week Dates: Venues often offer lower rates from Monday to Thursday.
  • Off-Season: Consider dates between October and April for better value.

Spring (March-May): A beautiful time for an Ulster wedding, with blooming gardens and milder weather. It's perfect for intimate outdoor ceremonies in a country house garden or photos by a lough.

Summer (June-August): The warmest and most popular season. Long daylight hours are ideal for evening celebrations. Book venues with outdoor terraces or beautiful grounds well in advance.

Autumn (September-November): Offers stunning golden landscapes and a cosy atmosphere. Think roaring fires in a historic manor or a boutique hotel. This season provides a romantic, intimate setting.

Winter (December-February): The ultimate season for a cosy, candlelit celebration. Many intimate venues excel at creating a magical winter wonderland atmosphere, often with festive packages and discounted rates.

Ulster is well-connected, making it accessible for your guests. Belfast is the main hub, with two airports: Belfast International Airport (BFS) and George Best Belfast City Airport (BHD). City of Derry Airport (LDY) serves the northwest.

Transport Links:

  • Rail: A reliable train network connects major towns.
  • Road: The M1 and M2 motorways provide excellent access from Dublin and across the region.
  • Car Hire: Widely available at all airports.

Many intimate wedding venues in Ulster offer on-site accommodation for a small number of guests, which is ideal for the wedding party and close family. This allows the celebration to continue over a full weekend.

For other guests, nearby towns and villages typically offer a range of options:

  • Boutique hotels and guesthouses.
  • Charming bed & breakfasts.
  • Self-catering cottages for a more private stay.
FAQ's

What is the average guest count for an 'intimate' wedding in Ulster?

While there's no strict rule, an intimate wedding in Ulster typically refers to a celebration with under 60 guests. Many venues specialising in smaller events are perfectly suited for guest lists of 20-50, allowing for a more personal and relaxed atmosphere.

Are there exclusive-use small wedding venues in Ulster?

Yes, absolutely. Ulster has a wonderful selection of venues that offer exclusive-use hire for smaller weddings. This includes private country manors, boutique hotels, and historic castles, ensuring complete privacy for you and your guests on your special day.

Can I have a legal outdoor ceremony at a small venue in Ulster?

Yes, it is possible. For a civil ceremony to be legally binding outdoors, the location must be at an approved venue which has a licensed outdoor structure. For religious or secular ceremonies, you have more flexibility, as long as the location is agreed with your registered solemniser.

What are the benefits of choosing a restaurant for a small wedding reception?

Restaurants are a fantastic choice for intimate weddings in Ulster. They often guarantee exceptional food and wine, have a naturally celebratory atmosphere, and can be more budget-friendly as you typically pay a minimum spend rather than a flat venue hire fee. Many also have private dining rooms perfect for smaller groups.

How far in advance should I book an intimate wedding venue in Ulster?

For smaller weddings, you have a bit more flexibility. However, for popular venues, especially if you want a weekend date in summer, it's still wise to book 12-18 months in advance. For a mid-week or off-season date, you may be able to secure a venue 6-9 months ahead of time.

Do intimate venues in Ulster offer all-inclusive packages?

Many do. All-inclusive packages are common and can simplify your planning process immensely. They typically bundle venue hire, catering, drinks, and sometimes even decor or accommodation at a set price per person, making budgeting clearer and easier for a smaller celebration.