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Description
The romantic Tudor house on the brow of a Hampshire hill.
Cain Manor is an exclusive-use wedding venue amid the scenic Surrey Hills, on the Surrey-Hampshire border. Admiredfor its oak-beamed rooms, landscapes gardens, and attentive service, Cain Manor provides a warm and welcoming setting for truly memorable weddings.
The Setting
When you celebrate at Cain Manor, you enjoy exclusive use of the house and grounds all day and night. With a choice of licensed ceremony spaces, you’re free to choose the backdrop that best reflects your vision. Say your vows in the oak-framed Music Room overlooking the gardens, or opt for an open-air ceremony beneath the pergola on the Meadow Lawn.
Capacity & Accommodation
Cain Manor can host weddings for up to 123 for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, with space up to 200 in the evening. When the party winds down you can relax in the Cain Suite while loved ones retire to 10 guest bedrooms. The next day, come together for a light breakfast — an ideal moment to share precious memories.
Harper Kitchens
Exceptional food is at the heart of celebrations at Cain Manor. Harper Kitchens is led by Executive Chef Lionel Jouanet, who previously worked at The Dorchester, creating menus with a focus on flavour and seasonality. We work with trusted suppliers who share our focus on quality and provenance – local family butchers, artisan smokehouses, seasonal produce – to create generous, flavourful dishes that people remember long after the day.
Your wedding includes the Harper Tasting Experience: a chef's selection of starters, mains and desserts, alongside a range of drinks, so you can make the perfect choices for your day.
Your Day, Your Way
We believe your wedding should feel wonderfully personal – so we give you the tools and support to make it truly yours. You'll have your own online wedding planner, where you can manage details, track decisions, and keep everything in one place. You'll also have dedicated support from our in-house planning team, with meetings included throughout your journey from booking to the big day.
Visit Cain Manor
Download our brochure and pricing from our website, or – better still – come and see Cain Manor for yourself in person.
The Harper Weddings Collection
Cain Manor is part of Harper Weddings, a family-owned company that also runs Botleys Mansion in Surrey and Notley Abbey on the Buckinghamshire-Oxfordshire border.
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Reviews (60)
- JJade & Thomas05/03/2026Everything ran seamlesslyEverything ran seamlesslyCain Manor was the perfect wedding venue. From the moment we walked through the door, we knew it was exactly what we wanted for a winter wedding. The team were incredible at communicating with us in the lead-up to the big day, and we truly couldn’t have asked for more. On the wedding day itself, the staff went above and beyond. Everything ran seamlessly, allowing us to fully relax and enjoy the day without worrying about a thing.Cain Manor was the perfect wedding venue. From the moment we walked through the door, we knew it was exactly what we wanted for a winter wedding. The team were incredible at communicating with us in the lead-up to the big day, and we truly couldn’t have asked for more. On the wedding day itself, the staff went above and beyond. Everything ran seamlessly, allowing us to fully relax and enjoy the day without worrying about a thing.
- JJodie & Tobie26/01/2026Professional, friendly and attentiveProfessional, friendly and attentiveWe couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding venue! From the moment we arrived, the team made us feel so welcome and supported throughout the entire process. The setting was absolutely stunning—beautifully maintained, full of character, and the ideal backdrop for our photos. Everything ran smoothly, and the staff were incredibly professional, friendly, and attentive. They went above and beyond to make sure every detail was just right, and we felt completely relaxed. We couldn’t have asked for a more perfect wedding venue! From the moment we arrived, the team made us feel so welcome and supported throughout the entire process. The setting was absolutely stunning—beautifully maintained, full of character, and the ideal backdrop for our photos. Everything ran smoothly, and the staff were incredibly professional, friendly, and attentive. They went above and beyond to make sure every detail was just right, and we felt completely relaxed.
- KKaren & Leo05/01/2026Supported, responsive and attentiveSupported, responsive and attentiveFeedback is overwhelmingly positive, the planning phase was very well supported - you were very responsive and guided us through the process nicely. On the day the staff were excellent, very attentive without being overbearing. You did an excellent job of preparing everything and setting up just how we wanted. It's worth a special mention to your catering team - our guests have universally fed back how amazing the food was - well done! Feedback is overwhelmingly positive, the planning phase was very well supported - you were very responsive and guided us through the process nicely. On the day the staff were excellent, very attentive without being overbearing. You did an excellent job of preparing everything and setting up just how we wanted. It's worth a special mention to your catering team - our guests have universally fed back how amazing the food was - well done!
- JJustine & Lewis18/12/2025Blew my expectations out of the waterBlew my expectations out of the waterCain Manor team, my superstars! Thank you so much for such a wonderful day. You blew all of my expectations out of the water. I can’t thank you enough.Cain Manor team, my superstars! Thank you so much for such a wonderful day. You blew all of my expectations out of the water. I can’t thank you enough.
- SSolara & James18/12/2025You made our day so specialYou made our day so specialThank you all so much again for such an amazing day—we honestly had the best time and were so sad when it was all over! We really appreciate your patience with us. You made our day so special and we’re so grateful.Thank you all so much again for such an amazing day—we honestly had the best time and were so sad when it was all over! We really appreciate your patience with us. You made our day so special and we’re so grateful.
- JJodie & Tobie18/12/2025The most amazing dayThe most amazing dayWe just wanted to say a huge thank you for everything you've done over the last year for our wedding, we had the most amazing day and cannot thank you enough for all the hard work that went into making sure the day went so smoothly!We just wanted to say a huge thank you for everything you've done over the last year for our wedding, we had the most amazing day and cannot thank you enough for all the hard work that went into making sure the day went so smoothly!
- AAlice & Ivan16/12/2025Beyond incredibleBeyond incredibleWe cannot recommend Cain Manor highly enough - we had the most perfect wedding day and the team are beyond incredible. They made us feel so special and welcome from the first show around to the day itself, and responded so quickly and helpfully to our many emails and questions. We loved the online planning management system - underestimated how helpful it would be to keep us on track! A huge thank you Jane, Elliyah and Antonio - on the day itself, they were just wonderful. We cannot recommend Cain Manor highly enough - we had the most perfect wedding day and the team are beyond incredible. They made us feel so special and welcome from the first show around to the day itself, and responded so quickly and helpfully to our many emails and questions. We loved the online planning management system - underestimated how helpful it would be to keep us on track! A huge thank you Jane, Elliyah and Antonio - on the day itself, they were just wonderful.
- LLacey & Ben10/12/2025Meant the world to us Meant the world to usJust wanted to say a massive thanks to Mickayla, Elliyah, Antonio, Charlie and Megan for everything on Friday, and leading up to the big day. You guys were absolutely fantastic. You've all been so great with assisting with various requests which honestly meant the world to us. A huge thanks to Jill as well for keeping the energy nice and high! Forget us, she was the real star of the show!Just wanted to say a massive thanks to Mickayla, Elliyah, Antonio, Charlie and Megan for everything on Friday, and leading up to the big day. You guys were absolutely fantastic. You've all been so great with assisting with various requests which honestly meant the world to us. A huge thanks to Jill as well for keeping the energy nice and high! Forget us, she was the real star of the show!
- HHollie & Ryan09/12/2025Perfect wedding dayPerfect wedding dayWe had the absolute perfect wedding day, and it’s all thanks to this incredible venue and their amazing team. From the moment we first visited, we knew this was the place for us - beautiful, well-kept, and full of warmth. A huge special shoutout to Mickayla, who guided us through every step leading up to the big day. Her organisation, patience, and genuine care made the entire planning process stress-free. We couldn’t have asked for a better venue or a better team. We had the absolute perfect wedding day, and it’s all thanks to this incredible venue and their amazing team. From the moment we first visited, we knew this was the place for us - beautiful, well-kept, and full of warmth. A huge special shoutout to Mickayla, who guided us through every step leading up to the big day. Her organisation, patience, and genuine care made the entire planning process stress-free. We couldn’t have asked for a better venue or a better team.
- KKatrina & Jonathan23/10/2025Everything we dream of and moreEverything we dream of and moreCain Manor was absolutely incredible from start to finish. The venue itself is breathtaking, but what truly made our day so special was the amazing team behind it. Everything ran seamlessly and the entire day felt effortless thanks to the staff’s organisation, professionalism, and genuine care. We had the best day of our lives at Cain Manor. It was everything we dreamed of and more — the most perfect setting, the most amazing team, and memories we’ll cherish forever. Cain Manor was absolutely incredible from start to finish. The venue itself is breathtaking, but what truly made our day so special was the amazing team behind it. Everything ran seamlessly and the entire day felt effortless thanks to the staff’s organisation, professionalism, and genuine care. We had the best day of our lives at Cain Manor. It was everything we dreamed of and more — the most perfect setting, the most amazing team, and memories we’ll cherish forever.
Location & Contact Details for Cain Manor
How do we secure a date?
Once visited (in person or virtually), you are welcome to reserve your chosen date for 10 days with a refundable £500 deposit. This enables you time to enquire about availability with the Registrar or church as well as read through our T&Cs before confirming your booking. At the end of the 10-day holding period, a further £1,000 confirmation deposit is due to confirm the date. The full amount of £1,500 is then deducted from your balance.
When do you require final details from us?
We like to give our couples as much time as possible to finalise the plans for the big day therefore, we don’t need any final details from you until 2-weeks before the wedding. This is when your online planner locks and details will be shared with the relevant teams to ensure your day runs without a hitch. If you do have any updates for us after this time, please communicate them as soon as possible and we will do everything we can to accommodate changes.
Do you provide a wedding co-ordinator on the day?
Yes, for all our package wedding bookings our team will be on hand to ensure your day runs seamlessly. In addition to that, you have a dedicated Wedding Planning Team available for any support you require 7-days a week in the lead up to your big day.
For dry hire booking, wedding co-ordination should be arranged separately however, we can help with recommendations if you need!
What style of food do you offer?
Exceptional food has always been at the heart of Harper Weddings. Our chefs work with trusted suppliers like Hampshire butchers Owton’s and artisan smokehouses to create seasonal dishes that make people smile.
Our mains are designed to delight all the senses. Our slow-cooked, coffee-rubbed Hampshire beef – served with butternut squash purée, creamed potato, crispy onions, and a deep, glossy jus – is a firm favourite, using quality local beef from Ownton’s butchers.
Our Moroccan-style braised lamb tagine brings warm spice and tender meat alongside spiced sweet potato and seasonal vegetables. And our butternut, spinach, and ricotta wellington, with its buttery pastry and fragrant sage jus, is a comforting, balanced, and carefully composed vegetarian dish.
Do you allow external caterers?
We have a fantastic team of in-house chefs and encourage couples to book our wedding package to ensure a stress-free day knowing everything is planned and executed within the Harper Weddings team. We do, however, welcome dry hire bookings on select dates where an external caterer can be used.
Do we have a menu tasting before the wedding?
Yes! You’ll be invited to a Tasting Experience in the lead up to your special day – an intimate date night where you get to try a range of dishes and drinks from our menu. After being welcomed with fizz and canapés, sit down to an indulgent menu and wine tasting, topped off with a cocktail tower before you head home. You may also find a small selection of Harper Partners around to chat with too!
Do you have recommended suppliers?
Yes, you can find our carefully selected Harper Partners on our website, under Wedding Resources. Should you prefer to source external suppliers for your day, you’re more than welcome to do so. Please note that we provide all food and drink for our package weddings.
Do you allow fireworks and sparklers?
Sadly, due to the nearby neighbours, we are unable to allow fireworks however, sparklers are a great way to end the evening and you’re very welcome to have these!
Can our dog attend the wedding?
Absolutely! We are proud to welcome dogs at our venues and your fur-baby is welcome to be with you throughout the entire day, evening and also overnight.
Is the venue wheelchair accessible?
Yes, we have ramps that enable access to all the main spaces in the venue. There are also ground floor rooms in the Stable Block.
