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Description
A Surrey mansion steeped in history and charm
Botleys Mansion is a grand Palladian wedding venue, just thirty minutes from London. Featuring sweeping grounds, a glass-roofed atrium, and seven sparkling chandeliers, it’s a setting that offers a picture-perfect backdrop for exclusive-use weddings that guests will remember forever.
Whether you’re planning an intimate gathering or a lavish celebration for up to 500, Botleys Mansion blends timeless elegance with modern comfort.
The Setting
At Botleys Mansion, the entire house and gardens are yours alone for the entire day and night of your wedding.
Choose a ceremony setting that feels right just for you from a variety of licensed spaces. The Green Room offers a romantic, intimate atmosphere with soft pastel décor and golden chandeliers, accommodating up to 130. For larger celebrations, the glass-roofed Atrium, complete with a striking staircase and seven glittering chandeliers, can host up to 288 for your ceremony and 500 for your evening party. If you’ve always dreamed of marrying outdoors, ceremonies are held on the Mansion Lawn with the Palladian architecture as your stunning backdrop.
Capacity & Accommodation
Botleys Mansion welcomes 50 to 288 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, with evening celebrations of up to 500.
After the last dance, the newlyweds can retire to the luxurious Botleys Suite, while family and friends stay in one of 12 beautifully guest bedrooms. The following morning, gather in the Dining Room for a relaxed breakfast, a perfect way to reminisce the special moments from the day before.
Harper Kitchens
Exceptional food is at the heart of celebrations at Botleys Mansion. Harper Kitchens is led by Executive Chef Lionel Jouanet, who previously worked at The Dorchester, creating menus with a focus on flavour and seasonality. We work with trusted suppliers who share our focus on quality and provenance – local family butchers, artisan smokehouses, seasonal produce – to create generous, flavourful dishes that people remember long after the day.
Your Wedding, Your Way
At Botleys Mansion, every wedding is designed to feel personal and uniquely yours.
Our online wedding planner helps you manage every detail, track decisions, and keep everything organised in one place. You’ll also have dedicated guidance from our in-house planning team, with meetings throughout your wedding planning.
The Harper Weddings Collection
Botleys Mansion is part of Harper Weddings, a family-owned company that also operates Cain Manor in Surrey and Notley Abbey on the Buckinghamshire-Oxfordshire border. With over 25 years of experience hosting weddings, we know how to craft celebrations that truly reflect the personalities and love story of each couple.
Visit Botleys Mansion
You can download our brochure and pricing from the website, or even better, experience Botleys Mansion in person.
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Reviews (71)
- NNikhita & Milan23/03/2026IncredibleIncredibleWe just wanted to say a massive thank you for making our wedding day so special. Everything was so special and we really appreciate everything you have done for us over the last year. We had so many comments from guests that the venue and coordination was incredible, so thank you.We just wanted to say a massive thank you for making our wedding day so special. Everything was so special and we really appreciate everything you have done for us over the last year. We had so many comments from guests that the venue and coordination was incredible, so thank you.
- SSian & Beau24/02/2026Perfect weekendPerfect weekendWe just wanted to thank you so much for everything you did leading up to the wedding and on the day. It was truly a perfect weekend and it wouldn’t have been possible without you. We’re very grateful.We just wanted to thank you so much for everything you did leading up to the wedding and on the day. It was truly a perfect weekend and it wouldn’t have been possible without you. We’re very grateful.
- LLauren & Joel29/01/2026So specialSo specialA big thank you again for all your help with planning our wedding. Joel and I had an amazing time, it was so special. Really appreciate all your hard work! A big thank you again for all your help with planning our wedding. Joel and I had an amazing time, it was so special. Really appreciate all your hard work!
- RRhona & Sean25/11/2025Incredible eventIncredible eventI just wanted to send an email to extend a huge thank you for all of your help with our event. Everyone has waxed lyrical about how incredible the event was and it wouldn’t have been possible without you guys and all of the assistance and support you provided me with! I’d also just like to say a special thank you to Maxine and the other event managers we had on the day. I was hugely grateful for their kindness and support. I just wanted to send an email to extend a huge thank you for all of your help with our event. Everyone has waxed lyrical about how incredible the event was and it wouldn’t have been possible without you guys and all of the assistance and support you provided me with! I’d also just like to say a special thank you to Maxine and the other event managers we had on the day. I was hugely grateful for their kindness and support.
- RRuth & Tim07/11/2025Slick and professionalSlick and professionalThank you for giving us such a magical day on Saturday! All your team worked so well together and we were really impressed with how slick and professional everyone was, and how well you stuck to the timings. Everyone we spoke to was so kind and attentive, and looked after me in my pregnancy too which was so lovely.Thank you for giving us such a magical day on Saturday! All your team worked so well together and we were really impressed with how slick and professional everyone was, and how well you stuck to the timings. Everyone we spoke to was so kind and attentive, and looked after me in my pregnancy too which was so lovely.
- KKen & David23/10/2025Best day ever!Best day ever!We had an amazing and best day ever! A million thanks to Katie and Lucy. You were just great and made our day so very special. we had an amazing experience thank you all so much. The team were wonderful and so accommodating. Everything went smoothly and to plan.We had an amazing and best day ever! A million thanks to Katie and Lucy. You were just great and made our day so very special. we had an amazing experience thank you all so much. The team were wonderful and so accommodating. Everything went smoothly and to plan.
- EEllie & Matthew23/10/2025A perfect dayA perfect dayWe just wanted to say a big thank you to you and the whole team for helping to make our wedding day so special! Everything went so smoothly, and we’ve had so many lovely compliments from our guests about the venue and the service. Thanks again for everything – it really was a perfect day. We just wanted to say a big thank you to you and the whole team for helping to make our wedding day so special! Everything went so smoothly, and we’ve had so many lovely compliments from our guests about the venue and the service. Thanks again for everything – it really was a perfect day.
- AAlison & Vix23/10/2025Memorable experienceMemorable experienceVix and I would like to extend our sincere thanks for hosting our wedding. We truly had a wonderful day, and we’re especially grateful to your staff—Lucy, Yasmin, and Jack—who went above and beyond to make our experience memorable. They are a true credit to Botleys Mansion, and without their exceptional support, our day would have been far less enjoyable.Vix and I would like to extend our sincere thanks for hosting our wedding. We truly had a wonderful day, and we’re especially grateful to your staff—Lucy, Yasmin, and Jack—who went above and beyond to make our experience memorable. They are a true credit to Botleys Mansion, and without their exceptional support, our day would have been far less enjoyable.
- GGeorgia & Richie23/10/2025The day of our absolute dreamsThe day of our absolute dreamsThank you for giving us the day of our absolute dreams is an appropriate start. Watching all of the visions, hopes, and plans over the last year come together so beautifully was truly a gift. Thank you for your patience, generosity, kindness, and willingness to go above and beyond to make our special requests possible. Thank you for hosting us with such grace and making us as well as each and every guest feel so sincerely important. Thank you for giving us the day of our absolute dreams is an appropriate start. Watching all of the visions, hopes, and plans over the last year come together so beautifully was truly a gift. Thank you for your patience, generosity, kindness, and willingness to go above and beyond to make our special requests possible. Thank you for hosting us with such grace and making us as well as each and every guest feel so sincerely important.
- SShabnam & Zoheil23/10/2025We loved the process throughoutWe loved the process throughoutShabnam and I would like to thank you for all your support and help over the last few months. We already received two comments from guests who said they would like to hold their wedding at your venue because it was so beautiful. We loved the process throughout - the team was amazing. I can't recall all the people we interacted with but Katie, Betty, Holly, Mickayla, Maddie & Jasmin were all excellent.Shabnam and I would like to thank you for all your support and help over the last few months. We already received two comments from guests who said they would like to hold their wedding at your venue because it was so beautiful. We loved the process throughout - the team was amazing. I can't recall all the people we interacted with but Katie, Betty, Holly, Mickayla, Maddie & Jasmin were all excellent.
Location & Contact Details for Botleys Mansion
How do we secure a date?
Once visited (in person or virtually), you are welcome to reserve your chosen date for 10 days with a refundable £500 deposit. This enables you time to enquire about availability with the Registrar or church as well as read through our T&Cs before confirming your booking. At the end of the 10-day holding period, a further £1,000 confirmation deposit is due to confirm the date. The full amount of £1,500 is then deducted from your balance.
When do you require final details from us?
We like to give our couples as much time as possible to finalise the plans for the big day therefore, we don’t need any final details from you until 2-weeks before the wedding. This is when your online planner locks and details will be shared with the relevant teams to ensure your day runs without a hitch. If you do have any updates for us after this time, please communicate them as soon as possible and we will do everything we can to accommodate changes.
Do you provide a wedding co-ordinator on the day?
Yes, for all our package wedding bookings our team will be on hand to ensure your day runs seamlessly. In addition to that, you have a dedicated Wedding Planning Team available for any support you require 7-days a week in the lead up to your big day.
For dry hire booking, wedding co-ordination should be arranged separately however, we can help with recommendations if you need!
What style of food do you offer?
Exceptional food has always been at the heart of Harper Weddings. Our chefs work with trusted suppliers like Hampshire butchers Owton’s and artisan smokehouses to create seasonal dishes that make people smile.
Our mains are designed to delight all the senses. Our slow-cooked, coffee-rubbed Hampshire beef – served with butternut squash purée, creamed potato, crispy onions, and a deep, glossy jus – is a firm favourite, using quality local beef from Ownton’s butchers.
Our Moroccan-style braised lamb tagine brings warm spice and tender meat alongside spiced sweet potato and seasonal vegetables. And our butternut, spinach, and ricotta wellington, with its buttery pastry and fragrant sage jus, is a comforting, balanced, and carefully composed vegetarian dish.
Do you allow external caterers?
We have a fantastic team of in-house chefs and encourage couples to book our wedding package to ensure a stress-free day knowing everything is planned and executed within the Harper Weddings team. We do, however, welcome dry hire bookings on select dates where an external caterer can be used.
Do we have a menu tasting before the wedding?
Yes! You’ll be invited to a Tasting Experience in the lead up to your special day – an intimate date night where you get to try a range of dishes and drinks from our menu. After being welcomed with fizz and canapés, sit down to an indulgent menu and wine tasting, topped off with a cocktail tower before you head home. You may also find a small selection of Harper Partners around to chat with too!
Do you have recommended suppliers?
Yes, you can find our carefully selected Harper Partners on our website, under Wedding Resources. Should you prefer to source external suppliers for your day, you’re more than welcome to do so. Please note that we provide all food and drink for our package weddings.
Do you allow fireworks and sparklers?
Unfortunately, fireworks are not permitted, but a sparkler shot by the fountain at the end of the evening is a must!
Can our dog attend the wedding?
Absolutely! We are proud to welcome dogs at our venues and your fur-baby is welcome to be with you throughout the entire day, evening and also overnight.
Is the venue wheelchair accessible?
Yes! Guests can access the venue via a ramp to the Atrium and there is a lift in the venue which takes you to all floors.
