Congratulations on your engagement! 💍 We’re thrilled for you and delighted that you’re considering Cottesmore as the backdrop for your special day.
Our experienced wedding team is here to make your journey seamless and stress-free. From your very first enquiry to the moment you say “I do,” we’ll guide you every step of the way. With a blend of professionalism and personal care, we take pride in creating weddings that are as unique and memorable as the love stories they celebrate.
Nestled within 247 acres of picturesque Sussex countryside, Cottesmore offers an enchanting setting, in an area of outstanding natural beauty. The charming courtyard, complete with its elegant fountain, reflects the character of the original farm buildings dating back to 1884, adding a touch of history and romance to your day.
Whether you dream of an intimate celebration or a grand affair, our venue can accommodate up to 150 guests for your ceremony and wedding breakfast, and up to 200 for your evening reception. With breathtaking views and timeless elegance, Cottesmore is the perfect place to begin your forever.
Exchange your vows in our stunning oak-beamed Barn room or choose an outdoor setting on our beautiful lawn for an elegant al fresco ceremony.
💒Prefer a church ceremony? No problem—join us afterwards for your wedding reception and after party!
Getting Ready Prep Room
Start your day in style in our luxurious Getting Ready Room, designed for comfort, convenience and lots of smiles!
Features include:
Add a touch of indulgence with a bottle of bubbly, selection of tempting pastries, or a refreshing fruit platter to keep you going while you relax and prepare for your big moment.
Available: 9:00 AM – 7:00 PM on your wedding day
🥂Drinks Reception
Our charming courtyard makes the perfect setting for sipping a chilled flute of bubbly or glass of summer Pimms and sampling our delicious canapés. Your own private vintage Horsebox bar will be open to serve your guests drinks before and after your wedding ceremony. It is also a great place for memorable photos and that all important confetti shot.
🍴Wedding Breakfast
Our Challis Suite has been designed with a contemporary feel in mind. It is adorned with mirrors, chandelier lights with light wooden floors and a calming interior. Floor to ceiling windows overlook our French Styled courtyard complete with original fountain. The Bar is in the same room, which is high up on everyone's wish list and open until 12.30am.
🏨 Stay on site
26 hotel rooms, 7 self catering lodges, beauty salon
A luxurious complimentary honeymoon suite is included for all of our couples.
To complement your overnight stay, our health club has a gym, swimming pool, sauna, steam room and hot tub to relax and unwind in.
Book a pre wedding dinner in our charming Phoenix restaurant or bar with views right across the Cottesmore Estate.
It's impossible to choose just one, as every wedding is unique, but one that stands out was a beautiful summer celebration where every detail came together perfectly.
The ceremony took place outdoors in the sunshine, surrounded by family and friends, followed by drinks in our beautiful courtyard. The couple had added so many personal touches, from handwritten vows to surprise entertainment in the evening, which created a wonderful atmosphere throughout the day.
What made it truly special wasn't the styling or the weather, but the genuine joy in the room. Seeing guests laughing, dancing, and making memories together until the very end is exactly what makes weddings at our venue so memorable.
Our No.1 wedding planning tip is to focus on how you want your day to feel, not just how it will look.
Trends come and go, but the memories you create with your favourite people will last a lifetime. Make decisions that reflect you as a couple, and don't be afraid to prioritise the moments that matter most to you.
One of our favourite personal touches was a couple who wrote each other letters to read on the morning of their wedding.
It was such a simple gesture, but incredibly meaningful and emotional. The letters captured their journey together and became a cherished keepsake long after the day was over.
As animal lovers, we also love to see cherished family pets as ring bearers!
Fairytale • Romantic • Rustic• Magical • Fun 💞
Our favourite photo spot is down by the lake, where couples can take a golf buggy ride through the grounds to reach it.
The peaceful reflective waters, beautiful natural surroundings, create a truly romantic setting for photographs. It's always a special moment for couples, and the images captured there are simply stunning." 📸✨💕
We've welcomed a few familiar faces over the years, but we're firm believers that every couple should be the stars of the show on their wedding day! ⭐
Our favourite canapé has to be a mini Yorkshire pudding, roast beef, horseradish. It's a classic that never goes out of style and is always one of the first trays to come back empty! ✨😋
Our favourite midnight treat has to be wedding cake!
After a busy day of celebrating, there's something special about guests returning for another slice while sharing memories from the day. It's a sweet way to keep the party going and make sure none of that beautiful cake goes to waste. 🎂✨
Our outdoor courtyard is one of the most unique features of our venue.
Complete with a beautiful water feature at its heart, it provides the perfect setting for guests to unwind, mingle, and enjoy the celebrations. Whether it's drinks in the sunshine or an evening gathering under the stars, the courtyard creates a wonderful atmosphere and is a favourite spot for both couples and their guests. 🌿⛲✨
What we're most proud of is our team.
From the very first enquiry through to the big day itself, we genuinely care about creating a personal and memorable experience for every couple. Seeing months of planning come together and watching our couples celebrate with their family and friends is incredibly rewarding. ✨💍