Bobbi the Celebrant

My most memorable wedding is the very first one I ever officiated. It was for a very dear friend, which made the experience incredibly personal and meaningful. I felt so deeply moved standing beside them, not only as their celebrant but also as someone who had witnessed their journey together. It was a defining moment for me—I realised how powerful and joyful it is to be part of such a significant day. Being able to genuinely learn about and share their love story was a true honour, and it confirmed that this was the path I was meant to follow.

Authentic, warm, relaxed, joyful, and heartfelt.

I’m most proud of the personal connections I build with each couple. I take the time to truly understand their unique love story and ensure that every ceremony reflects who they are. The trust they place in me to be a part of such an important day is something I cherish deeply. The feedback I receive, knowing that the ceremony I’ve crafted helped make their day even more meaningful, is what truly makes my work fulfilling. It’s not just about officiating a wedding—it’s about creating a moment that’s uniquely theirs.

My No.1 wedding planning tip for couples is to take the time to understand what truly matters to you both, and make sure your day is a reflection of those values and priorities. Every couple is different, and your wedding should feel authentically *you*. For example, one couple I married originally wanted to elope, but chose instead to include their family and friends. When we talked about why eloping appealed to them, it came down to wanting to feel deeply connected and present with each other. So, we built in intentional, private moments throughout their day—like a private first look—so they could still honour that desire for intimacy within a shared celebration. Thoughtful planning like this makes all the difference.

One of my favourite personal touches at a wedding was when I married a couple who had both lost a parent— the bride's father and the groom's mother. We discussed how their parents could be honoured on the day and with the ceremony. We discussed leaving two empty seats in the first row at the ceremony, each adorned with a beautiful bouquet and a sign that read, "Reserved for” with their parents name. It was such a touching and meaningful gesture. During the ceremony, we took a moment to acknowledge their presence in spirit, and it brought an extra layer of love and remembrance to the day.

My typical process with a couple begins with getting to know you and your unique connection. I take the time to truly understand your story—how you met, what you love about each other, and what this next chapter means to you. I use thoughtfully designed questionnaires and conversations to gather all the little details that make your relationship special. From there, I craft a ceremony that feels personal, meaningful, and reflective of who you are as a couple. It's a collaborative process, and I'm with you every step of the way to ensure the ceremony feels just right.

I honestly can’t think of anything that’s been overly unusual because every request I’ve received has felt perfectly "right" within the context of that particular couple. Each wedding is unique, and it’s always about reflecting the personalities, values, and vision of the couple getting married. Whether it’s a quirky tradition or an unexpected twist, I embrace the individuality of each couple and ensure their ceremony is exactly what they envision—because what might seem unusual to one person can be deeply meaningful to another.

As a celebrant, I’ve seen firsthand that the key to a stress-free wedding is thoughtful planning and a calm mindset. Starting early, setting a realistic budget, and being open to changes along the way can make a world of difference. I always remind my couples to delegate tasks where possible and to have backup plans in place—especially for outdoor ceremonies. But above all, I encourage them to focus on the heart of the day: their love and commitment. Things might not go perfectly, and that’s okay. With the right support and a little flexibility (when needed), your wedding will be meaningful, joyful, and uniquely yours.

What I love most about my job is witnessing love in its most genuine and expansive form. It's such a privilege to stand alongside couples as they share their hopes for the future, celebrate their journey, and express their love openly and authentically. Every ceremony is a reminder of the beauty and power of human connection, and being part of that moment—where everything else fades away and it's just about love—is something I never take for granted. It's joyful, moving, and endlessly inspiring.

My favourite moment at a wedding is when the couple becomes completely lost in each other—those quiet, powerful seconds when they’re staring into each other’s eyes, fully present and deeply connected. It often happens during the vows or just after the saying “I do”, and it’s as if the whole world fades away for them. I also love the energy of the entry, the emotion in the vows, and the joy of pronouncing a couple as married—but it’s those intimate, unspoken moments of connection that truly take my breath away every time.