Autumn weddings have exploded in popularity in recent years. Not only are they incredibly romantic, but they can also be unseasonably warm, and the beautiful backdrop of coloured leaves makes them perfectly picturesque.

If you’re looking to throw your very own autumn smash and aren’t sure what to wear, keep reading! We have 5 top tips to help you pick the perfect ‘fit, plus 9 ideas for brides, grooms, and guests.

What is an autumn wedding?

An autumn wedding can either be a wedding held in the autumn or a wedding with a cosy, pumpkin spice theme. Any weddings planned between mid-September and early November would be considered an autumn wedding. Anything after Guy Fawkes night — you’re in winter territory.

Dressing for an autumn wedding is all about rich colours, cosy fabrics, and autumnal accents. Gold leaf hair accessories, tartan pocket squares, and statement velvet shoes are all perfectly in keeping with an autumn wedding.

The most important thing to remember is to embrace the season. Think warmth, comfort, and those gorgeous autumn tones. Whether you’re a bride, groom, or guest, lean into the autumn vibe with layers, textures, and a splash of something festive like burnt orange or deep plum. Just enjoy the crisp air, cosy atmosphere, and let the beauty of the season work its magic

How to pick what to wear in 5 easy steps

Struggling with what to wear as an autumn wedding guest? Read on for our top tips to help you find the perfect outfit.

1. Check the forecast

Autumn can be unpredictable, and the key to staying comfortable all day is to check the weather forecast beforehand. Cooler weather will call for more layers, while you can get away with lighter fabrics if it’s a warmer day. Either way, plan for a little chill in the air, just in case.

Understandably, weather forecasts can change quite dramatically from day to day. As a result, you might like to have two outfits prepared so you’re ready for whatever the day throws at you. Although it can be challenging to pick two outfits for a wedding, having a rainy-day backup means you can adjust last-minute without the stress.

2. Focus on layering

The key to autumn fashion is layers, layers, layers. Not only do they keep you warm, but they also add style and versatility to your look.

Start with a chic base, like a sleek dress or tailored suit, then add a light cardigan, blazer, or even a stylish shawl. You can easily remove layers if the sun comes out, but you’ll be prepared for those crisp evening breezes

3. Beware of clashing

With multiple pieces comes extra potential for clashing, so it’s important to keep your colours and textures balanced.

Stick to a cohesive palette — think warm autumnal tones like burgundy, olive, and mustard. If your outfit has bold patterns, keep accessories and layers more subdued to avoid overwhelming your look.

Also, beware of clashing fabrics. Although they’ll keep you warm, heavier fabrics have a tendency to compete with each other if you’re not careful. Try to mix textures thoughtfully: pairing velvet with silk or wool with lighter knits can create a balanced, stylish look without feeling too bulky. The key is to let one fabric be the star while others complement it.

4. Statement shoes

An autumn wedding is the perfect time for statement shoes. Think classy Chelsea boots, suede loafers, or even bold block heels in a rich autumnal shade like burgundy or forest green. These shoes not only add a pop of personality to your outfit, but also keep you comfortable for all the mingling, standing, and dancing. Plus, they’re practical for navigating any outdoor terrain like grass or gravel.

5. Hidden hosiery

The pro tip to end all pro tips: a pair of sheer, nude-coloured tights can make all the difference on a chilly autumn day! Not only will they keep your legs a little warmer, but they’ll also give your outfit a polished, put-together look. If you’re wearing a dress or skirt, hidden hosiery is a subtle way to stay comfortable without compromising on style.

Equally, if it’s extra cold, consider wearing a pair of tights under your trousers or jumpsuit. This extra, hidden layer is sometimes just the little boost you need to stay warm without anyone knowing. It’s a simple trick that can make a big difference when temperatures drop. Plus, it won’t interfere with your look, so you can still rock your stylish jumpsuit or trousers while secretly staying cosy.

Extra pro tip: Tights are available in just about every tone now, so take the time to find the perfect match for your individual skin tone. The added time taken adds that extra bit of polish to your look, making your tights almost invisible while still giving you the warmth and comfort you need.

9 autumn wedding outfit ideas

If you’re stuck on what to wear, check out these 9 ideas for the perfect autumn wedding outfit, from couples’ attire to guest outfits. Whether you’re looking for a full outfit or inspiration for a fun accessory, everything you need is below.

For brides

1. Velvet elegance

There’s nothing classier than an all-white, velvet gown. Warm and luxurious, velvet is the perfect fabric for an autumn bride. It adds a touch of elegance while keeping you cosy. Opt for a fitted silhouette or a flowing, bohemian style. Either way, you’ll look stunning against the autumnal backdrop.

2. Capes instead of veils

Consider reserving veils for summer and spring brides. If you’re an autumn bride-to-be, a cape is a striking and eye-catching choice.

Capes are perfect for adding drama and warmth to your bridal look. Whether you choose a lace, sheer, or velvet cape, it will not only keep you warm but also add a magical, ethereal vibe as you walk down the aisle. It’s a stunning alternative that feels right at home in an autumn setting.

3. Statement sleeves

Cover up with a statement sleeve. Regal and elegant, long statement sleeves are perfect for an autumnal wedding look. Whether you opt for billowy bishop sleeves, dramatic puffs, or delicate lace, these beautiful additions to any dress add both warmth and style.

Statement sleeves also give your dress a vintage or boho flair, depending on the design, making you stand out in all the right ways.

For grooms

4. Tweed vibes

Tweed is the perfect addition to an autumn wedding. Not only does the heavy fabric keep you warm, but the muted tones also perfectly match the season’s palette. Opt for a full tweed suit or mix and match with a tweed waistcoat or jacket paired with wool trousers. Earthy tones like brown, grey, or olive green will complement the autumn atmosphere and give you a stylish yet rustic vibe.

5. Tartan accents

Tartan is known for being wonderfully stylish and extra cosy — perfect for an autumn or autumn-themed wedding. Whether you go for a full tartan suit or just add some subtle touches like a tartan tie or pocket square, it’s a great way to bring in a bit of flair. Plus, it adds a nod to tradition, especially if you’re embracing Scottish roots or just love the classic look.

6. Seasonal boutonniere

Pick seasonal flowers like deep red roses, orange dahlias, or even some berries and greenery for a boutonniere that screams autumn. You can also go for something a little more rustic, like wheat, to tie in with that earthy, seasonal feel. It’s a small detail, but one that can really elevate your look and bring the whole outfit together.

Pro tip: The muted colours of dried flowers are effortlessly autumnal. Look into pampas grass, lavender, or even dried hydrangeas. They not only look amazing, but also add texture and a wild, untamed vibe that’s perfect for the season.

For guests

7. Textured tights

Mix up your look by adding a pair of textured tights to your autumn wedding outfit. Think cable-knit, ribbed, or even subtle patterns. These will not only keep you warm, but also give your look that extra bit of style and depth. Pair them with a cute dress and boots, and you’re set for that outdoor ceremony or cooler evening reception.

8. Go monochrome

Monochrome doesn’t necessarily mean black and white. Instead, monochrome can mean choosing one color and running with different shades of it throughout your outfit. Think all shades of green, from olive to sage, or a mix of rich burgundy tones.

It’s a sleek, modern way to make a statement while staying in line with the autumnal theme. Plus, it’s an easy way to pull together a cohesive look without overthinking it.

9. Leather jackets

Effortlessly edgy and deliciously undone, a leather jacket is the perfect outer layer for an autumn wedding guest outfit. It adds a touch of cool without compromising on style. Pair it with a flowy dress or smart tailored trousers, and you’ll strike the perfect balance between laid-back and polished. Plus, it’s a great option if the weather turns chilly in the evening.

Plan a cosy autumn wedding with Bridebook

The key to dressing for an autumn wedding, whether you’re the couple themselves or a guest, is to embrace the season’s natural beauty while staying cosy and stylish. With the right mix of layers, textures, and seasonal touches, you’ll be all set for a day full of love, laughter, and crisp autumn air.

Don’t be afraid of a rich autumn hue or plush fabrics like velvet, tweed, and leather. And always remember, comfort is key, so keep an eye on that weather forecast and plan for any sudden chills or sunny surprises.

Happy Planning!

Sophia Shafiee

Sophia is a passionate writer and editor and expert on all things wedding content related, with a First Class degree from the University of Oxford. She frequently shares her wedding advice and tips with leading UK publications on behalf of Bridebook.com, including Harper’s Bazaar, SheerLuxe and Porter Magazine.

Last updated: 16th Oct 2024