Wedding Gift Registry Alternatives

Elinor Zucchet
Last updated: 14th Feb 2025

Not a fan of the traditional gift registry? No problem! There are plenty of great alternatives to physical wedding gifts, from honeymoon funds and charity donations, to memorable experiences to share with your partner, or even no gift at all! Read on for the full list.

Honeymoon fund

Ask your guests to help make your honeymoon unforgettable by contributing to your travel fund. Whether it’s covering part of your flight, upgrading your stay, or adding special experiences like a romantic beach dinner or a scenic boat and snorkeling tour, every gift goes toward creating lifelong memories. It’s a meaningful way for your loved ones to be part of your dream getaway while giving a gift that truly lasts.

Couple on a trip in Mexico

Charity donation

Choose a charitable cause that’s close to your heart and invite your guests to donate in your honor. Opting for a charity fund instead of a traditional gift registry is a meaningful way to give back while adding a thoughtful touch to your wedding celebrations. Plus, if you choose a cause you’re passionate about, you can help raise awareness and inspire others to contribute — it’s a win-win! Many organizations, from health and environmental charities to local community initiatives, offer easy ways to donate. You can also set up a personal crowdfunding page through platforms like CanadaHelps or GoFundMe to support a cause that matters most to you.

Make a change note with coins in someone's hands

Experience gifts

Create a wish list of experiences you would like to share together. Think romantic spa day, weekend getaway, cooking class, or luxury cinema experience. Choosing a gift experience as a gift registry alternative gives you the opportunity to bond with your partner and share lifelong memories. It also gives your guests the chance to give you something that truly reflects your interests and hobbies. Plus, experience gifts are often more versatile and flexible than traditional physical ones. You can redeem them at a time that works best for you, and look forward to them after your wedding.

Snorkeling couple

Home down payment/home renovation fund

If you haven’t bought a home yet, why not set up a fund to help with your down payment? Your friends and family will love contributing to your future in a meaningful, practical way. Instead of a traditional gift registry, this allows you to invest in something long-term — perfect if you’re first-time buyers dreaming of homeownership. Already living together? You can use the contributions for a home renovation, new furniture, or even a kitchen or garden fund. However you choose to use it, it’s a thoughtful way for your loved ones to be part of your next big step.

Homeowners holding hands with a key

Group gift

Some of your guests can come together to contribute towards a larger, more expensive, higher-value gift, such as a special piece of furniture or a new home appliance. Unlike traditional gift registries, which may only offer specific items, this gives your guests more choice, and the chance to help you buy something you need but can’t afford on your own. And rather than choosing from a pre-selected list, this way, your friends and family can personalize the gift to your tastes and needs. If you like surprises, this kind of wedding gift can also be a lot of fun to give and receive!

Couple holding a large box

No gifts

You may prefer to have no wedding gifts at all, and choose to keep the focus on the celebration itself. After all, the presence of your loved ones at your wedding is arguably the greatest gift of all! If you like simplicity, this is a great alternative to a traditional registry. There’s no need to select, purchase and wrap individual gifts – so less stress for both you and your guests. It’s also a more sustainable option – no gifts means no waste or environmental impact, whether that’s the production and disposal of a physical gift, or the transportation involved in something like a gift experience. Requesting no gifts can also help your guests save money, especially if they’re already spending a significant amount on transport, accommodation or other expenses.

Wedded couple with family and friends

With so many thoughtful alternatives, your guests can contribute to your wedding in a way that truly matters. Whether it’s a honeymoon or home fund, a donation to a cause you care about, a shared experience, or simply their presence, there’s an option for everyone to celebrate your special day in a meaningful way!

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Happy Planning!

Elinor Zucchet
Elinor is a multilingual writer with a Master of Arts from the University of Borlänge (Sweden), Chambéry (France) and Madrid (Spain). She organised her own multicultural wedding in the Faroe Islands, Spain and Texas, and shares her experience and advice with Bridebook readers, so that their big day reflects their unique personality.
Last updated: 14th Feb 2025