A wedding I created for someone which also incorporated a baby naming ceremony, was both delightful, fun and memorable. The children got involved with a sand ceremony and members of the local church sang. It was a beautiful day for a lovely couple.
fun, humourous, romantic, elegant, graceful
I am most proud of the fact that many of the couples I now conduct ceremonies for, were guests at previous weddings. I work very much so on recommendations and word of mouth.
Do not take on too much - delegate, key players love to help so do ask.
The most personal touch I have seen at a wedding was a jar for guests to put wishes and prayers into that could later be read over when times get tough. Marriage can get tough and it is important to remember how and why you got there in the first place.